Overview on Hot Springs April 17 2013

The weather is finally warming up in Toronto! Thank goodness that I missed the last snow storm while I was away. The party was in the pool and even at few points in the night on the dance floor. One of our new patrons who happen to be workin’ the stripper pole, a male stripper knew how to dance and that was rather entertaining as I ate my late dinner at the bar.

It’s great running into friends as we sat at the bar to socialize, chillin’ in the pool or in the greenhouse aka smoke hut smoking cigars. 

Dirty Bingo was held in the dungeon. Apparently, it has been shortened to 10 games as oppose to 15 games. Once the weather is warmer, it will be by the pool area again and the games will be longer. Come on time and don’t miss out the fun! I love seeing girls going home with toys in their hands and smiling! Even men come out to play to win for girlfriends/partner or for themselves and do trades with others if the prize is not a right fit.

Of course the Wraten’s came by with their trunk of sexy outfits for the ladies. Mr Wraten loves dressing up the ladies and Mrs Wraten & I watch all this go on and having our conversation by ourselves. They will be sleeping over at my place tonight since I am hosting a big dinner party. Love dinner parties and this is the biggest one yet. Should be an awesome one as it gets later it will shift over to Fetish Friday at Oasis Aqualounge!! It’s Tigress’s aka Daddy’s birthday weekend!!

Lifestyle Weekend Shenanigans!!

One of my presents in the mail from my awesome friend in Vancouver!

One of my presents in the mail from my awesome friend in Vancouver!

This past weekend was an incredibly busy one. Mentally preparing myself for the upcoming vacation plans one with Lifestyle Cruising (so much fun!!!!!) and family (totally vanilla and a way to cleanse myself with no sex & alcohol) trip, details of Hot Spring events for the month of April and May, preparing to play for Oasis Summer 2013 at Oasis, getting adjusted to my new space, and all the weekend outings.

Starting Friday late afternoon meeting with the Wraten’s for dinner at Cafe Diplomatico and a night out to the X Club for the Cafe Desire (a lifestyle dating site that needs to revamp and needs to be unbiased) Awards. The awards well, nothing to cry home about. It was a packed club but the music is turned up way too loud for my old lady ears. Apparently, the club has done some renovations with the “back is at where the action mentality” after it is midnight. Sure they have expanded areas split into two sections one side for group and the other with multiple private rooms. A loft room set for VIP if you want to do a party there and not sure how much it is what the premium package for bottle service. I give props to one of the owners that recognize me from the site and gave us a personal tour of the club explaining how they work & answer all of our questions.

We left at 1AM and decided to go back to Oasis Aqualounge for a night-cap. Apparently, the owners of M4 and Ozone were in the club as well. Must have been a bit quiet to leave from work but who can blame those to enjoy the pool facilities. Should clubs work together every now and then & support each other??

Saturday afternoon went to more WordPress workshop at the Library. Again, running into others that I have met from Toronto Podcamp and ending up going for impromptu lunch with Her LiL’ Blackbook blog writer. I love our antics and conversation with her. Sometimes I get too much male feedback so it’s nice to hear from a female perspective too.

viva las vegas ii - web

Saturday evening I reconnected with the Wraten’s to go to a birthday party. It was our mutual friend’s 50th and also one of the patron’s of the club. We stopped by briefly before we blew our cover or keep talking about these King Tut’s Nuts they kept serving us. It’s a funny story. Mr Wraten’s palette for food is a little limiting so the commentary  for these nuts. They were serving asparagus balls. Mr Wraten didn’t like them and he called them that were as dry as King Tut’s Nuts.  Mrs Wraten and I laughed until we cried.

Shortly after our laughing fit, we said our good bye’s and continued our party at Oasis Aqualounge for Viva Las Vegas. The Wraten’s (returning Wednesday, April 16 @Hot Springs) gave away sexy outfits to all the ladies in the dungeon and I was at the bar talking to some couples that I ran into from the Mardi Pardi and certainly met some wonderful couples that I haven’t met before. The night was mostly downstairs until my date showed. This person is new and met just a few weeks ago. Anyways, new, young, but certainly the maturity was there. I was hoping for an early night but it turned out to being quite a night. The final scene at the club was about 16 people or so in the Red orgy room. Hmmm… pretty interesting. The party didn’t end there. I ended up going to one of the couples hotel room to continue the party til 5:30am.

Needless to say, it’s been an early start today(Sunday, March 24) as I had to get ready to be on alltalktv.com for my interview.There may be another event project for me me to do. TBA.  Time to get ready for my dragon boat practice!!

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Fully Recovered and Ready to Rock Toronto!

rock out kitten!

Thank goodness I am done with being sick and all the antibiotics. That really took a toll on my body and just getting myself back in the swing of things.

This past weekend, I was still relatively low-key. Friday night hanging out with Chivo, his sister and friends, a small gathering at her place with food and booze(well no alcohol for me). Saturday I was packing up my house for move and watched Gangster Squad with one of my girlfriends. I missed my Boy Toy’s booty call close to midnight and by that point, I was already sound a sleep in bed. Sunday it was the Diva Posse birthday brunch with all the femme domme’s all in one cozy apartment. I am sure that a submissive boy would love to be the fly on the wall to hear what we had to say!! I was suppose to see Pastel de Nata but alas some other issues came out of no where and needless to say Daddy duties was extended for another day.

oasis

Looking forward to tomorrow’s Dirty Bingo with Tereasa and the Wraten’s (girls, can I say an awesome couple that loves to give free lingerie for all the ladies??). I haven’t seen the Wraten’s since the Wild Game Dinner over at our lovely friend’s Lifestyle B&B. So much fun and so much food!! Twist my arm for some more wild game meat!! So tasty!!

Congratulations to Oasis Aqualounge for making such a commotion on the media today! Metro News, Toronto Star, News Talk Radio 1010 with Mike Bullard, Global News, Fox NationA Bit More Detail (blogger), The Grid TO, O Canada, RussianWeek, Sun News Network, CBC, Western Gazette, The Newspaper (University of Toronto Weekly Newspaper), The Imprint (University of Waterloo Newspaper), The Toronto Observer, and The Young Turks.

Overview on Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge Dec 19 2012

Your Santa, baby. Thanks Wraten's for the awesome outfit! See you on Jan 16th 2013 at Oasis Aqualounge for Hot Springs!

Your Santa, baby. Thanks Wraten’s for the awesome outfit! See you on Jan 16th 2013 at Oasis Aqualounge for Hot Springs!

 

WOW! I thought it was going to be hard to wake up Wednesday, Dec 19th after the Oasis Aqualounge staff party on Tuesday night. Instead, I woke up laughing out loud in bed. Shaking my head in disbelief. Did that really happen??? We had pre-drinks at the club prior to dinner at Wine Bar and when dinner was over, we all jumped back into cabs and continued the rest of the night at Oasis. This year our staff has grown so if it was a drink fest for 38 people, it was definitely advisable to drink where we won’t break the bank and sure enough….. Well if I really tell you why I was laughing to begin with and I can’t. I can’t embarrass my colleague that way.

Anyways, yesterday and last night was a nice night of pure socializing, dancing, flirting, and bouncing around the club in my Santa outfit. Dirty Bingo took place in the dungeon and apparently people were already waiting for her to start. People are dedicated to win some sex toys and add to their collection of fun. The sea of Santa and elf hats… and there is even a fun you tube video of one naughty elf on the St. Andrew cross dancing!! It’s great to see a few more of more of my friends in the BDSM/Fetish Community, new faces, and even a few of my favorite couples such as mister and missus finance & other notable characters at Oasis Aqualounge. 

Again thanks to the Wraten’s who loves making me look sexy as I host events all the time. They are soooo sweet and I do love their random emails to me. They will be back at the club on Wednesday, January 16th 2013 and that is also next Dirty Bingo event. Wraten’s have been known to give out sexy lingerie/outfits to all the ladies. Mr. Wraten loves picking the attire out to fit all shapes and sizes and helping the ladies get dressed. A complete gentleman and very respectful. You’ll find Mrs. Wraten near by with smiles and giggles, an incredible sweetheart. Can’t wait to get my hands on more wild game!!

Next week Hot Springs land on Boxing Day and Oasis Aqualounge is still open 11AM to 3AM. Vagazille and embrace our <lady>box. Decorate it, wear sexy underwear, and well love our pusski.

**Pusski is also known as pussy. I name it pusski since I was born in Saskatchewan. In Sask, there is a lot of German, Polish, Ukrainian – the whole Eastern European settlement. A lot of them have their surname end in “ski“. pussy + ski = pusski**

Naughty Birthday Card

 

Thanks Wraten’s for sending out the birthday card and I had to post it on my blog. I think I will get myself banned on Facebook. Looks like they will be making a cameo appearance at Oasis Aqualounge tonight for my birthday. Despite the stuff that has happened to them last month, they still love us (and me)! Can’t wait to see them! You may see them in fuzzy bathrobes to stay warm after a hot dip in the outdoor heated pool. I think I should bring my robe tonight too…. maybe a robe party in the future!!

See you later today or tonight!

 

(Wouldn’t mind a piece of him but we do have one dancer that volunteered for tonight)!

 

 

 

 

Leather, Dream, Lingerie, Latex, and a side of Sausage

This weekend was incredibly packed of events and not ever a dull moment. Between working with Oasis Aqualounge,  representing the club at Meet and Greet parties at Northbound leather, meeting some really cool people from the fetish scene around the GTA, US, and even a few international travelers. Pre-party attire was a pair of black Danier leather pants, black top (I think), boots, leather jacket and white scarf. Something just a little sexy as I knew I had other pit stops along the way such as going back to Oasis Aqualounge for the pre-party of Dream. It was packed and music was pumping to get into the mood. I did a quick tour for the new people, a quick drink before I went to hang out with my neighborhood boys at the private wine bar.

Saturday in the day was awesome start. Had lunch at Cora’s with my friend Mellissa and laughed our faces off. Yes, I ordered my favorite crepe omelette with a side of sausage  and we giggled like school girls. We were all excited about the big party, discussing outfits, fun, and what kind of trouble we want to get into.  She looks so different when her genetics are really a he but when I see her in night mode, she is so hot. Anyways, gender bender, transvestite, drag- doesn’t matter. We have so much fun together, too bad she lives out of town!

In the late afternoon, I did manage to meet up with the Wraten’s at Oasis Aqualounge. They had some beautiful lingerie/sexy outfits for me and an opportunity to go out for dinner with them. Really sweet people and very caring. Can’t wait for our big wild game feast later in the year and having a jungle theme party.

Me, Dirty Bingo Tereasa, Fiona Flauntit (Great Canadian Burlesque), and Jana (Oasis Aqualounge)

My big party Dream was a great event.  I wore my custom latex nurse outfit. Despite that I did have to be at the booth for Oasis Aqualounge, I still managed to get photos taken with friends which also included with Leatherati, flirt, talk to my friends, watch the fashion show, spontaneous spankings on Sparkle Groove and turned out I had a bit of an audience as my rhythmic spanking sounds caught ones attention (I even got a surprise praise at the end of the night.), shining latex outfits since I have my bottle of lube available to shine others and even made a new flirty friend. After a night of flirting and rubbing each other’s latex outfit was quite a turn on (especially if I had to shine a latex kilt, do you get the picture?), I had to have my way with him. Now, waiting for more pictures!

Leatherati aka “Gay Dragon” and I (pulling his tail)!

No rest for the wicked today! I ended up going a very beautiful appreciation brunch this afternoon which included entertainment – live Trinidad music, dance, awards ceremony and most of all a strong community that believes in educating others about their culture to the world. Powerful speeches said by all. Everyone was really nice introducing  their names and shaking hands. I don’t know a whole lot of traditional Caribbean ways but I do know that one of these days I must see that side of the world. So many places to see!

Impromptu

Giant Vibrator…

 

It’s been a busy one these days. Hard to fit in a little fun at Oasis or let alone outside the club. There are times that I am very spontaneous but it’s got to be good and worth it. Thursday night I ended up having dinner and a motorcycle ride with someone who I just met earlier in the week. I love bringing out my own motorcycle gear out and I know I look good in it. I have to say Toronto riding is so different than Vancouver rides. You should be riding it outside the city to make it worth your while. Well it was a nice date and a nice hot rod!!

Friday had to take the time off!! Workin’ hard….went for brunch at Cora`s, go to Northbound Leather (getting measured for my new latex outfit, to be seen at “Dream” the biggest Fetish party in Toronto October 13 2012), and watched For a Good Time, Call… with my friends from out-of-town (nice way to enjoy being inside without being wet from the rain). In the early evening I had an impromptu dinner at The Hair of the Dog with the Wratens, T&K, OSP, another couple and one of Oasis bartenders for dinner. It was really, really good. The company, the joy, the excitement around the table. I can`t wait until Dec- we are planning a wild game dinner and dressing up in jungle theme. Yes, I am notorious of having food fun.

Over this weekend, has been a lot of planning for the events taking place at the Club. Hot Springs, birthdays (big bash November 7th), Halloween…. check out the calendar!!

Lingerie, Wild Game, and Presentation…

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As the weather gets slightly cooler in the evenings, it’s OK to wear your stockings and garter (no underwear of course). Yah, Oasis could have done the school girl theme but that is over played plus Fetish Friday this month is Bad Education so need to do repeats. Lingerie, what girl doesn’t love lingerie and especially if the Wraten’s dress  you up and the ladies get to keep the item. It’s fun to see all the girls, different shapes and sizes in new lingerie. If you haven’t met them, they are amazingly beautiful people inside and out!! They don’t drink alcohol so even offering to buying them a drink is not an option. I’d opt to write a thank you card and have all the staff to sign. Wraten’s we love you!!

I don’t know the Wraten’s enough, they only come into town about once a month or so but they have always been so kind to me. I received an email the night before asking me if I like bear liver meanwhile I thought it was a joke. They were actually serious and serious hunters. Then I was offered bear sausages. Never tried and decided to take the offering.

Bear Sausages

Those that know me, I love wild game meat-buffalo, venison, moose. I guess this is my small town personality kicks in. As a child, I remember my Dad’s friend making all sorts of sausages in the garage and the stations were set up as soon as the kill came through the door.

Saturday, I was home for the majority of the day. Decompress, personal writing, and cleaning the house. Then I opted to meet one of my girlfriend and her TIFF friends in Yorkville to network and check out the buzz. No actor citing (that I know of). Great to meet other types of people too! I couldn’t continue with the other TIFF parties as I knew that I should drop in Oasis Aqualounge to meet Mikey that runs The Everything that has to do with Sex Show (November 1st, pre-party with media is at Oasis Aqualounge! Show is November 2 -4 2012). I stopped by the club, chaperon a male friend (a friend of a friend) – socialize, chill in the hot tub and then I met Mikey. Well, sure enough, I didn’t leave the club empty-handed!! You mean with him, nah. I came home with the We Vibe Salsa (high-end sex toy). Didn’t stay too long, sneaked out early so I can figure out my presentation and sleep.

Sunday, I had a presentation for CanadaSAR about BDSM. It’s more on the basis of my experience. I would not label myself as an expert but I can tell  you how my experiences has developed. Each person that decided to explore this area is so unique and comes from all different backgrounds & reasons. Twenty minutes to talk I thought it would be long enough but it wasn’t. Time flew by and sure enough, they had other presentations to go to as well. It was too bad that Tigress wasn’t able to show but she had other commitments so I was on my own. I am flattered that after I was done, I was asked if I would be interested in doing any future presentations. I am honored.

My weekend finale was having Olivia and River Jade over for dinner. I have known them longer before Olivia was even created. We are close friends, traveled and even let me stay at their house when I was visiting Vancouver earlier in the year. River used to be a butcher so it was perfect to have the butcher to cook the bear sausages. The fragrant of the meat was not overpowering nor gamy in taste. Tasty with Trader Joe’s wasabi mayo(my addiction), sour kraut, and Dijon mustard.