Friends, Food, and Sex en Mi Casa!

Happy housewarming dinner party this past Friday night. A lot of my friends that have been part of my life in the last few years whether they are part of the lifestyle, fetish, colleagues, and even a few from outside of the scene came over to my house. I think about 25 to 30 people attended and everyone brought a lot of food to be shared such as wild game spaghetti  salads(by Mr and Mrs Wraten), Vigi’s lamb Popsicle (by Mr Tight Buns – forgot his other original nick name),  cheesecake(by Mrs Cuter with Curves), cupcakes, macaroons, fruit, and wine to share among everyone. It was a lovely spread of food!!. Most people knew each other and if they didn’t, everyone was pretty cordial together in the same room. Not only it was a housewarming/dinner party, we also celebrated two birthdays as well!! Birthday Daddy got a head start and had some action on my bed. Gave them my rubber sheet and sex towels & good-to-go.

After the dinner party, most of us went to Fetish Friday at Oasis Aqualounge to continue partying with everyone else and take the noise out to the club to vent it all out! My condo building is mostly older people so keeping the noise level to the minimum is a great idea. Besides I don’t want to do too much laundry, the beauty of playing outside of home is someone else to do the cleaning! A great night spending it with friends and Boy Toy came by after he finished work so the night is just getting started!! Boy Toy is always tentative, all eyes on me, and shower me with PDA.

Boy Toy and I soon take our play upstairs, I couldn’t wait to ravage him since I haven’t seen him in 5 days. Thank goodness my mid-week menage a trois sedate my sex hunger (which was a pretty hot scene, tell you more in a bit). We started playing, clothes strewn all over the floor and having our way with each other. A couple laying in the next bed watching us and soon another couple came in, watching and playing with each other. As soon as the other couple beside us left, the other couple hopped to the next bed to us. Somehow in the mix, the boys negotiated some play. Boy Toy ended up fucking the lady in the couple. I watched them play and didn’t play with the male. He was more interested in watching his wife getting fucked by other men. Meanwhile, I could have gotten upset but it was hot watching him fuck this lady. Does it look that hot when he fuck me on my fours?? I think it does…. so meanwhile when positions changed and she got on top of boy toy reverse cow girl and I sat on his face, I squirted all over his face three/four times.

Mr and Mrs Wraten stayed overnight at my house, along with Boy Toy. Good thing they came prepared with an air mattress. Fell fast asleep as soon as we got home. However, I must have been dreaming about sex since I kept playing with his cock all morning and woke him up early. Hot and horny first thing in the morning and the new word is sex alarm. Waking up people next bed over to the sounds of sex!! Grumble, grumble, spooning turns cock simultaneously rock hard. Good morning!!

Saturday night I stayed in. I couldn’t muster up the energy to go out and be on. Sometimes MsKitty needs a night off and chill out at home. There is still plenty of leftovers to eat and unfinished bottles of wine to drink. The kitchen sink was clogged all weekend and after two bottles of Drano, baby plunger, and hot water & dish soap combo finally released the clogged pipe.

Kitty Lotus the Dirty Cop with Riding Crop!

Kitty Lotus the Dirty Cop with Riding Crop!

Sunday afternoon it was my second appearance on Victory Commonwealth Wrestling as Kitty Lotus. Wore my cop outfit and had my riding crop in hand. My “Wrestling boyfriend”, Rex Atkins is a total villain and puts out a fight. When Gabriel Soul-Jones rolled out of the ring, I had an opportunity to knee him in the chest and got chased around the ring. Being part of this group is a fun side thing and now the boys in the backstage expects to see me as part of the gang.

Lifestyle Weekend Shenanigans!!

One of my presents in the mail from my awesome friend in Vancouver!

One of my presents in the mail from my awesome friend in Vancouver!

This past weekend was an incredibly busy one. Mentally preparing myself for the upcoming vacation plans one with Lifestyle Cruising (so much fun!!!!!) and family (totally vanilla and a way to cleanse myself with no sex & alcohol) trip, details of Hot Spring events for the month of April and May, preparing to play for Oasis Summer 2013 at Oasis, getting adjusted to my new space, and all the weekend outings.

Starting Friday late afternoon meeting with the Wraten’s for dinner at Cafe Diplomatico and a night out to the X Club for the Cafe Desire (a lifestyle dating site that needs to revamp and needs to be unbiased) Awards. The awards well, nothing to cry home about. It was a packed club but the music is turned up way too loud for my old lady ears. Apparently, the club has done some renovations with the “back is at where the action mentality” after it is midnight. Sure they have expanded areas split into two sections one side for group and the other with multiple private rooms. A loft room set for VIP if you want to do a party there and not sure how much it is what the premium package for bottle service. I give props to one of the owners that recognize me from the site and gave us a personal tour of the club explaining how they work & answer all of our questions.

We left at 1AM and decided to go back to Oasis Aqualounge for a night-cap. Apparently, the owners of M4 and Ozone were in the club as well. Must have been a bit quiet to leave from work but who can blame those to enjoy the pool facilities. Should clubs work together every now and then & support each other??

Saturday afternoon went to more WordPress workshop at the Library. Again, running into others that I have met from Toronto Podcamp and ending up going for impromptu lunch with Her LiL’ Blackbook blog writer. I love our antics and conversation with her. Sometimes I get too much male feedback so it’s nice to hear from a female perspective too.

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Saturday evening I reconnected with the Wraten’s to go to a birthday party. It was our mutual friend’s 50th and also one of the patron’s of the club. We stopped by briefly before we blew our cover or keep talking about these King Tut’s Nuts they kept serving us. It’s a funny story. Mr Wraten’s palette for food is a little limiting so the commentary  for these nuts. They were serving asparagus balls. Mr Wraten didn’t like them and he called them that were as dry as King Tut’s Nuts.  Mrs Wraten and I laughed until we cried.

Shortly after our laughing fit, we said our good bye’s and continued our party at Oasis Aqualounge for Viva Las Vegas. The Wraten’s (returning Wednesday, April 16 @Hot Springs) gave away sexy outfits to all the ladies in the dungeon and I was at the bar talking to some couples that I ran into from the Mardi Pardi and certainly met some wonderful couples that I haven’t met before. The night was mostly downstairs until my date showed. This person is new and met just a few weeks ago. Anyways, new, young, but certainly the maturity was there. I was hoping for an early night but it turned out to being quite a night. The final scene at the club was about 16 people or so in the Red orgy room. Hmmm… pretty interesting. The party didn’t end there. I ended up going to one of the couples hotel room to continue the party til 5:30am.

Needless to say, it’s been an early start today(Sunday, March 24) as I had to get ready to be on alltalktv.com for my interview.There may be another event project for me me to do. TBA.  Time to get ready for my dragon boat practice!!

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Overview on Hot Springs December 26 2012

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That was the last Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge for the year 2012. Don’t fret, more to come in the new year and once again, thank you for your support!! Despite the blizzard that fell overnight, the hard-core regulars still came out played, swam outside even with the snowfall, danced and drank the night away. I wore my new Victoria Secret lingerie that I got from my submissive for Vajazzle your Box or my box anyways. It wasn’t as busy as I hoped but people do surprise me when they actually come out to play. Perhaps all the turkey coma with family and the desire to get away from out-of-town guests for the night.

I was pretty sedated the night of Hot Springs. A very mellow, no-drama Christmas.Spent some time with Pastel de Nata – went out for drinks, sex, nap, late night movie, more drinks and sex. What more can I unravel? What did I get for Christmas?? I think I got a “boyfriend”. He threw out the word and didn’t ask me out (like high school). Excuse me, baking powder?? Did I hear that right?? What do people do to make it official?? Suddenly feeling that I am back in high school again. I didn’t argue but I did make him repeat it to make sure he meant it. Feeling a little awkward since it’s been almost three years since I’ve been in a relationship. <deep breathes>

This might be the last post before the New Year. I still got some planning to do for NYE after party hosting!! Stay tuned!

Taking Care of Business

Taking Care of Business

This past week has gone by like a sneeze! The celebration of Hot Springs one year anniversary, training with Char Travel & hosting Char at my house for the last few days & , dinner with lifestyle friends either in midtown Toronto and a unique tapas joint out on St. Clair West area, hosting First Taste at Oasis Aqualounge, and now I get to claim my space back in the cozy bachelor suite.  I made sure Char was taken care of – yes, a few boys took “care” of her.

Now what about me?? After I send her off to the train station in a cab with fresh, hot coffee in her reusable thermos, I decided to start cleaning up the house. Then soon enough my mind wandered and decided that I, also needed to take care of a few things. A DIY may I might say?? Doesn’t make sense to do it on clean bedding but I didn’t care, that is what towels are for. Took out my We Vibe Salsa (fully charged, battery on those only last 30 minutes), grab my lube, spread my legs and turn it on. A sigh of relief, close my eyes, relax and let the pulse vibrate right on the tip of the clitoris. The sensation lightly jingles my piercing and just focus. Happy early morning orgasm to myself!! Self care is a good way to Taking Care of Business.

Time to go back to cleaning and soon to cook this wicked Shepard’s Pie with venison for this amazing wild game dinner tonight.

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Everything to do with Sex Show 2012

Mr December 2012 for www.torontoffc.ca

Well it was quite the whirlwind show! Everything to do with the Sex Show was located right at the Metro Toronto Convention Center in downtown Toronto. Nothing like sharing the same convention floor with Dentistry and Sex. I was part of the Oasis Aqualounge booth (of course)! Some may argue that MsKitty should have my own booth but I think it will be really a lot of work and all. I enjoy the companies that I am affiliated and others such as Venus Couples (promo code: Kitty45 for 6 months membership for couples seeking other couples) and Char Travels (yes, next month December I am supposed to learn all my technical/computer programs to book lifestyle travels). Other companies that I love and adore that were there as well that were exhibitors was Northbound Leather and Aslan Leather. I met a few others that could be potential co-hosts for Hot Springs (stay tuned).

Oasis Aqualounge involved in a panel discussion with Dr. Jess and Venus Couples.

The highlights about the event are:

  • I enjoyed sharing/educating people about Oasis Aqualounge.
  • I got to see some of my few girlfriends working at the event.
  • Friends that stop by to say “hello” and hugs
  • Getting my first birthday card and cute wine glass tags
  • Pictures with (new) friends, media, and yes, including with Mr. December. I told him that I would only buy the calendar if he will take a picture with me holding me up!
  • Flirting with a few bi boys…. mmmmm yummy!

If you did stop by the show on Sunday, sorry that I missed you! I had to take the day off as I worked six days straight and needed some well deserved R&R. I got to spend some time at the spa for a facial, hair color, & massage. Also some fabulous birthday dinners at Gusto and Panorama the last couple of nights.Speaking of birthday, I have one more celebration at Hot Springs tomorrow located (of course) Oasis Aqualounge. Instead of paying $50 (couples and single men), it’s $33 if you bring a non-perishable food item!! I know single ladies get in free but please donate some for Christmas Food Drive for Daily Bread Food BankI have Dj Melanie and Mark (M&M) rockin’ the tunes in the evening. Dirty Bingo Tereasa is bringing fun goodies (I have no idea what it is!) and who knows what I will bring to share!! I haven’t decided yet!! Please bring some male strippers… :p

PSST.. My name got mentioned with Mike Strobel in his Sunday’s article: http://www.torontosun.com/2012/11/03/missionary-positions-are-gone-strobel

Go Big or Go Home

Did I say that??? No, I didn’t. Seriously! This is one of the things that I learned at She’s Connected blogger’s conference. Not sure if Kate White is a size queen(she is a Southern gal afterall) but she was talking along the lines of being ambitious, not envying the next girl but really looking at what I wish for (and stop envying)! Could I be the next influential digital woman out there? Of course I can! What do I got to lose?

Wore the shirt to Oasis Aqualounge and this is what happens when MsKitty brings markers

It was a fantastic conference and met some pretty awesome bloggers out there. The swag, mini manicure at McCafe, personalized shirt with my Twitter name on it, all the different big sponsors at the event, and most of all the knowledge. I have a lot of work to do! None the less, just excited and so awesome to get inspired to do much more. More to tell and more to share!

Swag-o-rama and coupons!

As busy and energetic as I was, I didn’t go to She’s Connected after parties. I chose to go hop over to Oasis on Friday night and Saturday instead. Friday was Fetish Friday; I met this really nice and sexy Spanish couple. She was really hot and he was incredibly funny. I may have charmed them with my Spanish; the words that I can still remember (recuardo). As I remember traveling in Spanish-speaking countries, the people always treat you better when you try to speak their language. The love, the passion and warm culture- mi casa su casa. <corazón>  Saturday, I had a large posse of my friends from Montreal and one of my lovers at the club. It was a pretty busy with people dressed in masquerade (not me though). A dip in the heated outdoor pool was so amazing after a full week. I didn’t stay too long, my mind was wondering and with too many distractions I had to take my lover home to satisfy my hungry appetite for (big) cock.

Sunday I had homemade brunch at Kitten’s apartment with Faux Mink (her dog). Girl time to talk, empower, catching up on all the gossip, watch the Real L Word (some lesbian reality series) and Polyamory, cruised over on the Danforth & met up with her new (gay) boyfriend to shop and had the most trash talk at Mocha Mocha cafe (the best ham, tomato, and avocado crepes in the city). Picked up a few Halloween decorations for Haunt Springs (Hot Springs at Oasis Aqualounge). I haven’t seen Batmann(my main/go-to lover) in a few weeks so Sunday night was my way to end the weekend with mind-blowing sex.

What’s considered mind-blowing sex? When both parties cum and non-stop female ejaculation. It was a freakin’ fountain but hot. We needed towels and a blow dryer (guess that second hair dryer will have a new home). He knows my body and I just can’t get enough of his cock. Always hungry, more ways than one. GRR!!

Now speaking of BIG,“Size Matters….Help Us Grow”, I have this to offer you as a promo with this new website launched called Venus Couples. A brand new site lifestyle resource center (travel, therapists, newbies guide and many interactive articles) and a dating site for couples meeting other lifestyle couples. It’s a beautiful site, clean(no nudity, erotic not porn), user-friendly and will be the next up and coming lifestyle site. Check out the site, I have the promo code for you to share- free for 6 months!

**PS I will be on the Mike Bullard show tomorrow with Mikey Singer aka Everything to do with the Sex Show. Watch me on the webcam…. surprise!!**

Happy Gobble Gobble (for us Canadians)

 

Sunday was a great day to make a lot of luscious foods! I made homemade chicken stock and soup, crepes , apple galettes , homemade salad dressing and salad. It was such a treat and completely in my own element. Making food and sharing with friends is a great feeling. This year I didn’t host as my place is petite but instead I was invited over to HotSexy1 and TallandHandsome’s beautiful home. Their place was a fabulous setting, open concept kitchen, spacious, great hosts, and of course their cute cats. It may turn out that I can be their cat sitter while they are away.

I’ve been trying not to catch a cold that has been going around. I thought I might have caught it but it might be just allergies. This afternoon having to re-arrange my furniture, vacuum up the dust bunnies, dusting, and having to make room for a few of my personal pieces. Well it’s looking great and preparing ahead for the upcoming projects that I have aligned for myself.

Projects can range from the Oasis Aqualounge events, functions, working on the computer from home, arranging travel plans ahead, planning personal goals and I am my own assistant. Lots of exciting affiliates, learning about Lifestyle travels (and hoping for more exploration in the future), going to a bloggers convention, changing/updating my site,  and got an interview date set up with my favorite Classic Rock radio station in Vancouver called Bro Jake Show, so yes, it’s easy for my mind to become distracted.

I am thankful for those that allow me to be part of their lives. The community has been really amazing and really sweet in Toronto. I am so lucky to have some incredible friends that I have met since I moved out here. THANK YOU!

Jinny’s Birthday @ Hot Springs Tonight

It’s Jinny’s Birthday tonight at Oasis Aqualounge for Hot Springs! Come down and give her a birthday cheer (and maybe a spank on her bum)!!

Even though we have been open since 11AM today, the night is just getting started.  See you soon !! <kisses> <kisses and spanks>

I made some homemade chocolate chip cookies!

Meat and Carbs Kinda Weekend…

 

A bit of a delayed weekend. Last Friday, I couldn’t make it The Super Naughty Art Show that Christian Aldo was hosting at 99 Sudbury. I heard nothing but fun times by the people who went to the show from people getting body painted, eating Cockpops (which I am hoping to bring to the club-at Oasis), and some fun outfits to be seen!! Of course, I heard the art display is awesome and those that missed it like I did, can get a private viewing.

::::The SUPER WONDER GALLERY:::::
Official Hours of Operation for “The SUPER NAUGHTY SHOW”
Tues, Wed, Thurs, Fri – 4:pm – 8:pm
Sat – 2:00pm – 8:pm
Sunday – call for appointment.
Christian Aldo 416-516-5457

Saturday, I was doing a lot of personal administration like cleaning box, inbox and those other mundane things. I am my very own assistant so I really have to be on top of my game. I did manage to stop in at Oasis Aqualounge for the Esther’s Grecian Orgy for a few hours. I love running into patrons that I haven’t seen in a while so I was busy playing catch up and saying hello to everyone. Short night for me. Sometimes Saturdays I am pooped by midnight and I turned into a pumpkin.

Sunday, I had a few things to reorganize at my place and that took up most of the day. Good thing I have muscles and I can lift my own rubber containers. Thanks to all the hard efforts of dragon boating, gym, and strength. Batmann (my pseudo lover) made me a fabulous dinner at his place. Spaghetti, sauce, and chicken schnitzel. Well my weekend ended with “Something About Mary” hair gel at the back of my head. Need I say anymore?? :p

Monday, normally working hard but I end up hanging out with my cousin in the day. It was her birthday so we spent the afternoon together- coffee, pho, and Kensington Market. I did end up going on a dinner date (my choice of restaurant) with Mr. Chef and we ended up going to Barberian’s Steakhouse.

8 oz Filet Mignon wrapped in bacon and baked potato with sour cream, chives, bacon bits, and feta cheese.

Most of the times, my weekends are crazy but this time not so much. Yes, the serious tones and being wined and dined is OK. Intimate affairs are good and never forgotten. Food is pleasureable and yes, droolable!

TGIF Naughty Friday (tonight)

Looking for a few things to do?? Here is a few ideas:

 

 

Go to the West side of the city to 99 Sudbury and then go to Oasis Aqualounge to the east (close to the Church Street Village) to show off your naughty outfits!! I believe it is a naughty back to school theme tonight. Wear your short skirts, leathers and a naughty ruler to spank!