I love surprising the staff and patrons with homemade goodies from home. Peach compote with mini crepes- so cute and easy to eat. Of course if you have peach/maple syrup dripped onto your body, just may have to ask someone to lick that off! One of patrons, “Cuter with Curves” and her partner surprised the club with their generosity with Lindt Chocolate – milk , white , dark, coffee, raspberry, and hazelnut. I didn’t try all of them but they were sooooooo yummy. She had them all in an ice bucket too!! Not only that, but over the long weekend, I told her that I needed to get a new bikini bottom and she surprised me with a whole new bikini! It fits perfectly!
SSN Events had two play times, one in the early afternoon and one in the evening. I normally don’t watch SSN group upstairs but I do see sedated men afterwards or in passing to the shower facilities. Information on their events, please check http://ssnevents.com.As for the fetish group, I was unclear on when they were arriving as I wasn’t introduced to the Lady that organized her group of friends. I did recognize a few people from the scene but they were already patrons before. It was fabulous to see new people who I have only been in communication with them online and finally officially meeting in person.
I love having my friends come down to Hot Springs for the first time especially those that have an open mind to see new things and yet to enjoy the facilities. We started the night having a fabulous dinner together and a drink (a little liquid courage doesn’t hurt). To start, a tour of the club and sure enough, it was too hot wearing clothes so a dip to the pool we go! One of the things that I like to do and we both love to do is smoking cigars. Those that know me smoking cigars and being in the pool is my all time favorite position at Oasis (it even overrides sex for the time being). He eased into the night, chatted with people who I introduce him to my set of friends, and even watched my girlfriend Tigress playing/Domme another female submissive in the dungeon. I adore watching the action in the dungeon, variations of play, intensities, the smacking sounds, moaning, and the serenity of mind play.
Hot Springs has been getting more balanced in the ratio of men and women in the club. It was brought to my attention that one has said the ratio was 50:3 (50 men and 3 women). No idea where that ratio came from because I have seen more women in the club than three. The event attracts a diverse group of people of all different shapes, sizes, ethnicity, age and interest. Some people are nudist, lifestyle (aka swingers), fetish, voyeurs, and undecided/exploring.
Having to de-stigmatize that all single males is such a “no-no” in the Lifestyles is an on- going battle. As a “free spirit”, I see the challenges. Not all are bad and there are some wonderful men that are complete gentlemen that happens to attend Hot Springs. We are in the process of creating a monthly workshop to ensure what is the proper etiquette at Oasis Aqualounge.
Another big question that I get asked from time to time is the most popular time for “action”. First of all, I cannot guarantee that you will get laid, every time you attend a sex positive atmosphere. Having to set those intentions whether you are single man, woman, or as a couple is a way to set too high of expectations and may result you being unhappy and negative. Even I don’t play all the time! Relax, take a deep breath, talk to people and take it from there.