Overview on Hot Springs

Totally “Geeking” out with the one and only Reid Mahalko!

WOW! That was a busy day and night! We did run out of lockers at some point in the night and it was busy everywhere despite the well attended workshops by Sex and Consciousness Toronto special guests Reid Mahalko, Lawrence Lanoff, and Monique Darling. They did an amazing job at both workshops! Well I only did go to one workshop but the other was a sold out and I just heard that Monique was able to squirt in front of an audience (which is not easy to do, let alone there are those that never achieve that before).

We also had lomi lomi massage available by the pool every other Wednesday. I’ve also found a new sponsor for Hot Springs for sex toys and lingerie (including plus sizes) called Live it up in Style. My sponsor even brought her friend out that is in the industry and we had an amazing conversation.

Everywhere was busy and even had the delight of having Reid for some one-on-one time. I did appreciate his honesty and negotiating play was rather easy! Have to admit that was the first time ever had a dental dam being used on me. I wanted to see what it was like and surprisingly enough it was pretty hot. Normally, I’m not a big fan of the humming sensation but it was pretty nice. Our experience was more just foreplay but I am sure if we did engage any further we would need a few days. The energy was pretty hot!

Lawrence has a very beautiful presence about him. Our greeting at first was a big, warm welcome hug and full of static!! His pictures doesn’t do him justice and ones aura can’t be captured on camera. We had a big conversation about travel & food, got him hungry so we went to pick up dinner at the ultimate big grocery store near by the club. Hope to meet up someday and connect without all the busyness around!

My night ended with a nice glass of bubbles with a new guy from out of town and ended it off at his hotel room. What a big night! Slept like a baby …. he was very sweet to pick up breakfast for me in the morning before he had to attend a work conference.

Well I am up early today and I can’t sleep the day away! Head is still a little fuzzy but I am still on good girl duties with family. Oh the double life!

Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge April 3 2013

Finally a day with no meetings or anything at the club and all I had to do was show up with my sarong ready for the sarong party. It’s an easy theme. The weather gods hasn’t really cooperative and our spring is rather delayed. I wonder if that is why our attendance is slightly lower than usual. Sometimes it does prevent people to coming out. Crossing my fingers for the warm weather and lay by the pool naked to tan.

Personally my own experience at the club that day was tame (not as wild and crazy night that lead to wee hours in the morning). The night-time pool dip was indeed refreshing talking to some friends and new people joining Hot Springs for first time. It was rather hot hearing sounds of moaning coming from the greenhouse aka smoke hut. Sounds if Miss F** in pleasure, it hit the good notes in one ear! One of my other favorite patrons came to the club after traveling abroad for work FootLover4321. If you remember him from last summer, he was the one massaging the girls feet. If I can get you a copy of that pic, I will post (it’s in progress).

I got some new Oasis Aqualounge pool update. Once the weather is warm, they can rip up the deck to check on the pipes for better repairs. Due to January 2013 combination of crazy party and cold weather freezing up the pipes due to water shortage, the pipes have leaks so the power of vacuum suction has air leaks. Also we will be changing the white vinyl seating areas to be wider (the seats are narrow at the moment) and changing the seats to be easier-to-clean-material & waterproof. I did hear plans on extending the deck but we also have to think of something that is less slippery over the winter. **Remember don’t run around the pool, don’t want to slip and injure yourself. **

Anyways, next week’s theme is Pajama Party and Annie Fanny is coming back for figure drawing(will be located in the upper red bar)!!

Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge March 27 2013

I arrived about mid-afternoon to meet up with Fionna Flauntit for our marketing meeting. We (as in the club) are already getting requests for the summer schedule and alas, put our two creative brains together. We will announce our summer schedule soon!

The daytime crowd has it’s steady of coming and going. Soon the warm weather will appear and many will lay by the poolside to get their tan on. This spring has been a later one but at least the weather is on its upturn to warmer now in the day. Soon the smoking hut will be torn down to make room for the lounge chairs to reappear.

Early evening, I stepped out to the Gc Watch Gala (check out this photo Gc_photo) at the TIFF Box. A very well attended event and I even got some “instant” photos with the watches that are currently launched. I’m hoping to get the a copy of the photos since my new friend took them and I guess he’s going to show it off to his wife. Anyways, didn’t stay for too long as it was getting too hot and I want to take off my jacket. It wouldn’t be appropiate for that environment to show off my outfit with see through material revealing my nips. I could only imagine the daggers by other females who is on the hunt…

Back to the club and it’s getting busier as the night picks up. Got ready to be part of the Right Approach Seminar in the upper red bar. It was short and sweet hosted by Miss F**.

I think everyone (or at least me) anxious to see Voodoo and Karlie Montana. We have been Twitter-ing back and forth all day leading up to the event so it was all good. Those that missed it on this past Wednesday night, there is an encore performance tonight(March 29 2013) at Spectator Sex (couples and single ladies only). Of course, they came in fashionable late with another male friend. After when they got settled in the four of us we chatting on the dance floor. It wasn’t long until Voodoo dropped his shorts <oops, did=”" i=”" do=”" that?=”"> and revealing a semi ready for Karlie to take a perfect mouthful of his cock into her mouth. Hot, hot, hot!! The crowd started to swarm and watch the scenario I tried taking the other friends shorts to reveal his member but it didn’t budge. Sure enough, my boy toy showed up and like a squirrel finding nuts, I left the porn stars as they began to fuck. Time to get my own action….. you can only window shop for so long!!

Lifestyle Weekend Shenanigans!!

One of my presents in the mail from my awesome friend in Vancouver!

This past weekend was an incredibly busy one. Mentally preparing myself for the upcoming vacation plans one with Lifestyle Cruising (so much fun!!!!!) and family (totally vanilla and a way to cleanse myself with no sex & alcohol) trip, details of Hot Spring events for the month of April and May, preparing to play for Oasis Summer 2013 at Oasis, getting adjusted to my new space, and all the weekend outings.

Starting Friday late afternoon meeting with the Wraten’s for dinner at Cafe Diplomatico and a night out to the X Club for the Cafe Desire (a lifestyle dating site that needs to revamp and needs to be unbiased) Awards. The awards well, nothing to cry home about. It was a packed club but the music is turned up way too loud for my old lady ears. Apparently, the club has done some renovations with the “back is at where the action mentality” after it is midnight. Sure they have expanded areas split into two sections one side for group and the other with multiple private rooms. A loft room set for VIP if you want to do a party there and not sure how much it is what the premium package for bottle service. I give props to one of the owners that recognize me from the site and gave us a personal tour of the club explaining how they work & answer all of our questions.

We left at 1AM and decided to go back to Oasis Aqualounge for a night-cap. Apparently, the owners of M4 and Ozone were in the club as well. Must have been a bit quiet to leave from work but who can blame those to enjoy the pool facilities. Should clubs work together every now and then & support each other??

Saturday afternoon went to more WordPress workshop at the Library. Again, running into others that I have met from Toronto Podcamp and ending up going for impromptu lunch with Her LiL’ Blackbook blog writer. I love our antics and conversation with her. Sometimes I get too much male feedback so it’s nice to hear from a female perspective too.

Saturday evening I reconnected with the Wraten’s to go to a birthday party. It was our mutual friend’s 50th and also one of the patron’s of the club. We stopped by briefly before we blew our cover or keep talking about these King Tut’s Nuts they kept serving us. It’s a funny story. Mr Wraten’s palette for food is a little limiting so the commentary for these nuts. They were serving asparagus balls. Mr Wraten didn’t like them and he called them that were as dry as King Tut’s Nuts. Mrs Wraten and I laughed until we cried.

Shortly after our laughing fit, we said our good bye’s and continued our party at Oasis Aqualounge for Viva Las Vegas. The Wraten’s (returning Wednesday, April 16 @Hot Springs) gave away sexy outfits to all the ladies in the dungeon and I was at the bar talking to some couples that I ran into from the Mardi Pardi and certainly met some wonderful couples that I haven’t met before. The night was mostly downstairs until my date showed. This person is new and met just a few weeks ago. Anyways, new, young, but certainly the maturity was there. I was hoping for an early night but it turned out to being quite a night. The final scene at the club was about 16 people or so in the Red orgy room. Hmmm… pretty interesting. The party didn’t end there. I ended up going to one of the couples hotel room to continue the party til 5:30am.

Needless to say, it’s been an early start today(Sunday, March 24) as I had to get ready to be on alltalktv.com for my interview.There may be another event project for me me to do. TBA. Time to get ready for my dragon boat practice!!

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Overview on Hot Springs @Oasis Aqualounge March 20 2013

Pheff, getting caught up with a lot of administration for the club, organizing details for future events at Hot Springs, and all the things that lead up for MsKitty. Once I got to the club, it’s nice to see some familiar faces that I haven’t seen in a while and greetings of big hugs at the door. After all the hugs, I did have a meeting arranged with staff to prepare for the Right Approach to Attracting Women; a workshop created by Oasis Aqualounge staff and it’s for people to understand some of the club etiquette.

This is going to be an amazing night!

Learning how to communicate to others in a place like this can be intimidating. We understand and we want everyone’s experience to be a positive one. After all, we don’t to scare people away, we want to build it as a loving community where people can be themselves, to relax, to have fun, find adventure, meet new friends and whatever you want it to be (as long as it’s consent). A sex positive place doesn’t guarantee you to get laid but an option if YOU choose to engage in sexual activities. Don’t get offended if someone say no. Everyone has that right, remember when you first signed into the club, No means No.

OK, enough of me being serious. I got a funny highlight and trying to keep myself contained of giggles!! I was in the shower, (getting ready to go for a late dinner and return back to the club afterwards) washing my hair and a guy came into the shower stall next to me. Washing my own hair, minding my own business, I saw this well-endowed cock. Hello Mr Girthy, you caught my attention. Now this would be the perfect Herbal Essence shampoo commercial fantasy. Without trying to laugh at myself the scenario that is going on in my head, I can just imagine it to being a hot scene. MMMMM, shower fantasy. Damn it, I had a business dinner!! Maybe next time, if I see him again.

After dinner and returning to the club, I ran into a few more people who I haven’t seen in a while. There was a decent amount of lesbian/queer ladies at Hot Springs. Nothing against them, sometimes I would think they may have issues seeing cock but then again it could be of 2 things. It could be the article that Pink Mafia did of Hot Springs or the fact that SINGLE LADIES is always free on Wednesday! Apparently, an unplanned gang-bang happened in the dungeon. I did a quick-glance before getting caught in the cross-fire or mis-communication that I was interested in the situation.

Fetish Friday @ Oasis Aqualounge to Wrestling at El Mocambo

I haven’t been to Fetish Friday in such a long time! My schedule is usually pretty busy but my other plans got cancelled so I opt for being part of fetish fun wearing school girl attire (second time in a week)!! It was a special occasion since we were celebrating two birthdays but one in particular was George’s (one of the owner’s of Northbound Leather) 50th Birthday. The biggest cake with a picture of George blowing bubbles at his daughter’s wedding and everyone had a glass of champagne to celebrate. Lythium Barbie made some awesome moist vegan cupcakes. Place was packed with people and many of them love & support Northbound Leather. Cheers George and many more years to come!

Boy Toy stopped by later at Oasis Aqualounge in the night, had a couple of drinks before we headed off back to my place for a late night romp. A very late night that lead to a very early morning – hello morning wood. The room was a complete disaster and after when he left, it was a massive clean up.

Didn’t go out on Saturday night since I thought I be good, setting up my place. After all going out three nights in a row, my body is pooped & tired. My intentions were to help out at my friend’s Church again for the soup kitchen Sunday AM before I go to Wrestling at El Mocambo.

I’ve always loved wrestling since I was a kid watching it on Saturday afternoons!

Slept early but I didn’t wake up for 9.5 hours. I was really that tired! Sorry Steve!! I had good intentions of going but I was just really needed to sleep like a bear! Anyways, took my time getting ready for wrestling. I was asked by Mysterion to be part of the show as a valet for one of the wrestlers. What the hell am I suppose to do?? Bring him into the ring, make him look good and cheer for him on the side. I thought I was supposed to be with Saki San and then it turns out it was Rex Atkins (the bad wrestler). It was fun – I am getting ideas on what to do the next match April 21 (same place). Thanks to Bruno Davis, he’s giving me ideas!!

PS. My name in the wrestle scene now is Kitty Lotus. Ms Kitty is taken so Kitty Lotus it is! :p

Check out the You Tube video!!

Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge March 13 2013

Holy Crap it’s already mid-month!! Hot Springs notty school kids definitely gone bad this past Wednesday. Even though it was spring break, I wasn’t sure how busy it will turn out to be but it was a pretty cool mix that night! Lots of single girls, couples, and of course the men! Sometimes we are busy upstairs more than downstairs but the party goes where people feel comfortable, chill, and of course soaking in the outdoor pool.

One of my cool acquaintances came by, Mr Salsa (he teaches a few times a week) and we had to break out dancing so we can get warmed up dancing this Saturday night together. Yes, only two things that I will be submissive (as my dragon boat coach will say) first is when I am in the boat dragon boat taking his orders and second I will let the male lead when dancing to salsa music.

Nothing too crazy happened to me on Wednesday night. My mind has been on a serious note as I was focused during our Oasis Aqualounge marketing meeting earlier that night. Sometimes it gets occupied with the wheels spinning with ideas and things to do!! Not only that, I had to end a complicated/unclear relationship – whatever it was earlier that day. A friend had confessed his love for me and wanted more of me. I thought everything was OK… since he was all supportive of MsKitty and all and then he retracted. He wanted me to be monogamous emotionally and physically even though he totally knows about MsKitty, Oasis Aqualounge and all. Well, I had to put an end to it. I am not changing who I am since I know myself, I may be OK for a while until my eye starts to wonder. I can’t be with someone who wants to change my whole existence, what if I told him to stop being an artist and go into accounting?? That’s TOTAL BS. Finding the right match for me, a male version of me, we shall see!!

Keep on Movin’ and movin’ forward! Enjoying my freedom as a free spirit and I won’t settle for second best!

Spontaneous Weekend

Friday night my first weekend in my new over-sized living space, I thought my best ideal fantasy would be nice to break it in with a threesome, a mfm with my two boy toys. They both know of each other but never met. The one that I met back in November was OK with the plan but Mr Yummy wasn’t, ugh. A way to break up my bubble of la la fantasy land. Great. Fuck it, plan B.

Plan B was to check out Cube 1 year anniversary party with one of my guy friends but he had to bail due to Daddy duties. Then a friend of mine from Edmonton texted me to say he is still in town so sure why not industry people just as cool. I wore my black rubber tank top with a skull and black slim pants. We hung out there, ran into some of my vanilla friends (or secretly inner dirty but still shy to admit that they like something different or kinky), and surrounded by all these tall, model-types fashionistas = to good people watching material. We lasted maybe about an hour or so and then we decided to let’s make a trek to Wicked. Got into the cab, change of heart and opt for Two Cats. Long line-up and decided to make a move to For Your Eyes Only for a few drinks. Back to the newly renovated Two Cats for another few and then ended off the night of A&W.

Kris and I

Saturday I had tentative plans to be with Kris and Tom (aka K&T) and join them over to go to Ozone for the Mardi Pardi event. They had a hotel suite that the club has connections with so there was shuttle service to the club (that we missed). It was my first time hanging out with them since schedule has been quite the challenge but it was really nice to have dinner with them prior to going back to the hotel to get ready. Really sweet couple. I was treated like I am going on a date but only it was a trio. I had fun with my new friends, ended up running into quite a few couples that I haven’t seen since summer at the club and/ or from out-of-town as well. Since I wore a mask, I was incognito.

What did I like about the club? Since it was all about collecting beads, it was a nice excuse to talk to all the men in the club and chatting with their ladies. The (male) staff seem pleasant to me (or they may have liked the topless viewing). I think I was a little confused about the renovations or changing of the back area. I didn’t see a dungeon unless it was tucked away somewhere??

Anyways, Sunday was about setting up and more cleaning of my new space. It’s taking a little while, it’s a lot of work when I am doing this alone and preparing for my transition. Having your own serenity and fully setting up my office is so important. Feeling good about myself first before being present to anybody is pretty crucial for me. How can one love others when one has to love them self? Staying strong though the thick and thin!!

OK off to getting ready for Hot Springs event! Notty School kid theme! Spring Break!

Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge Feb 27 2013

The winter weather seems to be like the way people gauge whether they will come out or not. I’m sure the Slurpee weather is not fun to drive in, it’s exactly how the snow is in Vancouver!! It was only slightly quieter than normal but the it’s really nice to talk and give tours to a few first timers at the club. Often when I come to the club late afternoon, I help out on the phone answering people’s questions as I catch up with staff about upcoming events and what is still left remaining organizing last details for Sexapoolza. If you are planning to attend, please stop by and get some 50% discount on Hot Springs and weekend (Couples and single ladies only) events.

This week, I am going easy on the drinking. I celebrated hard last week and the combination on Saturday night after the conference, I have to take it easy on my body. It’s a full weekend working at the booth and need to reserve my energy being on my feet and chatting with people. My mind is wandering on upcoming events, things to do, proposals to write, future travel plans (lifestyle and family), personal friendship/relationships, and expanding the empire. Staying focused and trying to stay on track is a commitment for things we want in life, what do I want surrounding me? Law of Attraction…

The Right Approach workshop is now a monthly co-hosted event with Ms F**. She had some interactive questions and asked for volunteers from the crowd to participate this time. It was fun, playful and spiced it up with her sexy number! Ms F** has been with us for a few months now and she hosts the Women and Trans night every last Tuesday of the month.

After the workshop was done, we had Naked Girl Reading with four ladies. Literally, naked girls reading short stories and since it was on a Hot Springs night, it was all water themed topic. It’s a different kind of entertainment and we are always looking for interesting ideas to tickle your fancy!

See you next week at Hot Springs for a fun Bluhand Rednose Playshop….. let’s get silly and yes, I am one of the models to be demonstrated on!!

As always, the outdoor pool was pretty hot but with the snowfall to cool you off is a wonderful feeling!! The night ended with a mini wrestle match in the red orgy room. It’s cozy and no one will fall the bed! That’s a first for me!

Overview on Hot Springs; The Right Approach to Attracting Women Seminar @ Oasis Aqualounge January 23 2013

It has been a really busy week for Oasis Aqualounge in the last week. U of T took over the club on Monday, January 21, causing a stir in the media around Toronto to the States and even in other languages such as in Russian and Chinese with well over 20+ news articles/videos/radio interviews and even a brief mention in Chelsea Lately Show. Still trying to get the clip since it is on American network, it is a little more difficult in getting the right clip!!

Until weather warms up!!

Due to its coverage and mayhem that night, the staff worked really hard to maintain the club that night. Which meant the pool was really busy and wasn’t tended to the water levels so it sunk lower. Therefore the pool, pipes overworked and the cold snap have destroyed the pipes. They can’t fix it until the weather thaws and will have more answers/details what day the pool is back in business.

The whirl pool and sauna was the hottest spots in the club to keep warm and toasty. I took my robe and flip-flops to work but I kept myself cozy with my sweater and leggings!! I had to go in early since I was computer-less since the fuse went and had to get fixed.

Last night we had our Oasis staff and I host the seminar with skits and added the do’s and don’t on what to expect about how to approach women in this kind of environment. We had fun and tried to make it a bit of a comical relief. Our sexy teacher, Miss F facilitated the seminar as we huddled together upstairs at the red bar. A great success and I hope a lot of people got something out of it!! If you missed it, I am sure we can do it again in a few months time. I hope we can do a video on it so we can add it to the Oasis Aqualounge website and on my website as well.

I wasn’t my flirty self last night since I was expecting Pastel De Nata to show up and he didn’t. He told me he was on his way but something happened. I didn’t know what it was until this late afternoon. Concerned since no answer, no response all day. However, it’s fine – but dramatic.

As I mentioned earlier yesterday morning, “Either one can be in the dog house or in the pussy palace but you can’t have both”. - MsKitty

I need my mind at ease before I go away on my trip and making my first Lifestyle Cruise. I get to learn how to sell the cruises and taking Oasis Aqualounge to an international level. So exciting and yes, I am planning to enjoy the Florida sunshine, see an old high school friend and meeting up with some other lifestyle couples after the cruise.

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