Check this video verson!
Mirna is an awesome staffer at Oasis Aqualounge but I love her expressions and her ability to be an articulate writer.
Here is the video:
Video version on Oasis Aqualounge article “Swingers Club Q&A”
Category Archives: Sex Politics
Swingers Club Q & A
I love this blogger, she’s an amazing writer. Please check her out as she is one of the staffer’s at Oasis Aqualounge. A different point of view to appreciate.
MsKitty
Lifestyle Etiquette and Guide
Good manners go a long way!
Lots to learn and what is considered OK behavior – or not. Here is one of the guides that I found online for those who want to read up!!
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http://www.lifestylemagazine.com/category/newbies-guide/
Will be hosting an etiquette workshop for Hot Springs this coming Wednesday, Sept 5 and First Taste is on Thursday, Sept 6. Stay tuned for more details!!
Fifty Shades of What What?? or shall I call it Mommy Porn??
OK, OK, I didn’t read the book(s) Fifty Shades of Grey or shall I call it Fifty Shades of Mommy Porn? I don’t think I will purchase the book(s) but maybe I will borrow them from multiple friends who got sucked into buying the book. That way I can make my own opinion of the book.
I have to say my first BDSM book was actually a manual called Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns; The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon. Now this book first print was back in 1995 and I am sure they keep reprinting it each year for updates such as SM Support groups around the world. Now that we have internet we can find groups, classes to learn, and if you are lucky – a mentor who can teach you hands on and answers all your questions. Even though I have been in the scene for quite sometime, there is always something to learn. Don’t be scared. Not all is scary and some of it is really quite sensual. Of course there are others that like it really intense but has managed to build up to it.
Since the whole phenomenon with the Fifty Shades of what what, fetish accessories and clothing has been flying off the shelves!! One of my favorite stores called NorthBound Leather has an article written about them in the Financial Post. Congratulations!
Another article from BNN:
http://www.bnn.ca/News/2012/8/3/Fifty-shades-of-green.aspx
**Northbound Leather has Fetish Fridays at Oasis Aqualounge every third Friday of the month**
My review on Fetish Fridays:
http://mskittyintoronto.com/2012/03/18/fetish-friday-oasis-aqualounge/
Matt Kink Engineering also known as Sheet Latex
WOW! Is all I can say! Matt from Kink Engineering and also known as Sheet Latex has recently passed away last week. I won’t rewrite but here is the link:
http://kinkengineering.tumblr.com/post/24006986572/rip-matt
Photo by: Kindred’s Muze (from Northbound Leather Facebook Page)
Matt, I have only met you a handful of times. Thank you for making my custom-made rubber bedding! Your art, friendship, and more will be greatly missed in the Fetish Community. My condolences to Archean, staff and family.
One of the beds Kink Engineer made and had set up for their Wet Party @ Oasis Aqualounge in the Red Room
Everyone that plays with Rubber vac beds, please never play alone and always supervised by a person or group setting.
Ego
I received this comment on my post ( http://mskittyintoronto.com/2012/05/01/bat-mann-came-to-the-rescue/ ) and it certainly inspired me to write about this comment:
“So i am guessing you’re one those girls thinks guys who are average or smaller are not good ( or “not men”) while the guys that are hung are “real men” and great etc etc.” (The author didn’t leave his name but I certainly checked out his blog. Apparently, a comedian of some sort and posts jokes.)
My first reaction, I laughed. I got my first “hate mail” or is it rather “hate (well-endowed) male” ?? Then I thought, am I going to approve of this comment and have a trail of hate?? Nah, that’s too easy! After that, all I could think it’s something that my past ex would say those exact words to me, in my face. I had a dream about him, thanks to my “hate mail/male” LOL. Now I really have to write about this comment!!
What do I really think about this comment?? (as I said with a grinning smile and giggles) Sure, thanks for recognize that I like a fairly decent (above average) size of cock especially if it fits ME right and knowing that I can appreciate a nice cock. Perhaps I like big cocks? Meanwhile, it’s OK to say “nice tits”, “hot ass”, “great booty”, ”look at those legs” and anything else to females all the time but if a girl likes a cock, it seems to be a shot down to a male’s ego. OUCH, just a little OUCH to the ego.
I reread my post a few times, I don’t think I shot down anyone else’s ego. I could go on a ramble about what is considered to be a “Real Man” . Not a big fan about writing about ego, it’s as annoying even to experience it. Movin’ on and I am still smilin’!
“We are constantly protecting the male ego, and it’s a disservice to men. If a man has any sensitivity or intelligence, he wants to get the straight scoop from his girlfriend.” Betty Dodson
How is your Sexual Health?
Thank you for reminding me reminding me to write about this “TO Friend”! I received a text from him stating that he was considering returning to his wife and asked where to get a non-invasive STD testing done. Back in January 2012, I have posted on Facebook that I had my first non-invasive STD testing at Hassle Free Clinic(Sexual and Reproductive Health Clinic).
To book your appointment is different – based on separate hours for men and women and trans-friendly as well. I booked mine based on the fact that I was due for my check up and make sure that I am still in the clear zone. Testing should be done based on many different levels:
- having multiple partners
- condom broke with an unknown partner
- changing partners
- unsure about your current partners status
- sexually active
**”The word “partner” is used to describe all genders(female, male and transgender) in with who you choose to have any sexual relationship/contact. The word partner is not only used in a business context matter but used for personal relationships.**
It’s far less stressful knowing that you are negative(as in, not STD/HIV positive) for yourself and for your current partner(s). No one wants to be lied to especially on sexual health status. It may not happen to you but it could be your friend, neighbor, colleague, family member and even your best friend. (Yes, it happen to one of my dear friends. I cried. I miss you, wherever you are. Miss our friendship JC-if you ever get the chance to read this!)
I could list a lot of other resourceful clinics. You may send me the name of clinic and contact information and I could post via email (mskittyintoronto-mskitty@yahoo.ca) or add a comment below. Otherwise, please talk to your family physician for any medical concerns. I’m no doctor, I’m part of the caring community! Do your part, get Checked!
Toronto – http://hasslefreeclinic.org
Vancouver – STD Clinic http://www.stdresource.com/clinics/index.php
Spanking in the Workplace – Boss with Employee
One of my good friends forward this article to me about spanking in the workplace that was recently published in the Toronto Star.
Is this OK? Is this consented between the two adults? Is the boss really abusing his powers?
I am very impressed with the author with his response to this ethical question. Sure notes of history, religion, power imbalance, and even “healthy couples” has implements for spanking. Perhaps I may sit on the fence on either or side. I see both sides, what do you see??
