Overview on Hot Springs May 22 2013

Pic of the Day! Guess who?? I miss the smell of the Westcoast!

The weather was a bit fickle but the sun did show up in the mid-afternoon. Still the die-hard day regulars show up and still enjoy the heated all year round pool! A relaxing hump day, connecting and socializing with friends around the pool deck is pretty awesome. Oasis is still a hidden gem in the heart of downtown Toronto. What better way to relax, chill, enjoy bar service, and connect with new people.

These days having my family around gives me a bit of an edge. Sometimes I’m feeling curt with people but it’s a lot of work hosting family at my house. Having to be on good daughter duties and that entails cooking, baking, cleaning, doing more house chores, and being a tour guide! Just on a break from them as they are enjoying the Ontario sites, catching up, working lots before I begin my travel abroad with family for the first half of June. My friend, Mia who will be guest blogging for me will cover the first two Wednesdays. It will be a great opportunity to see a different point of view and perhaps it will be nice to have guest writers to participate/write about their experiences at Hot Springs.

Last night after my dinner meeting and back at the club around 10PM, I decided that it was going to be a chill night, people watching and talk to some new people by the bar area. I love hearing about people’s story. How did they hear about the club, what made them decide to come to a club like Oasis, and how they negotiate play. I did find one fellow very interesting and something that I have never seen at any lifestyle event before. This fellow, was carrying a few (new) packaged sex toys. I guess if you were interested in having the toys, you would then have to interact with him and the toys would be yours to keep. Would you, as a girl be enticed to have sex with him?? He asked me a few times but as the night did get late, my bed was calling my name. I’d politely declined his offer, again (after he asked me the second time). Curious, what would you do if you were in my position??

Feelin’ like a Cougar to Family Obligations….

More family trickled in over this weekend. It’s a full house and having to share a bed with your mother is not like I have space to masturbate or bring someone home to fuck. Good thing I will have about 5 days break from them and try to get as much done- work, fuck and sleep.

HMMM.. ALWAYS..

Friday night, dying to go out and vent, I had last minute plans to meet up with my American speakers from Wednesday’s workshop. It was so nice to meet them and I am glad that they had a successful time. I can’t believe we ended up at Madison Pub. I loved the company, hated the smoke on the patio (used to the patios in Vancouver where it is non-smoking), and met some wonderful people that went to their workshop on Friday. As I was leaving the pub, some guy was a bit sloppy and had the hipster glasses, dress shirt and tie look, tried to pick me up. Honey, it ain’t happening. I was so not going to use my cougar abilities that night and definitely not going back to your residence to fuck either. Funny at the moment but my eyes sure rolled a few times around.

Saturday night I knew I had to show up to Oasis Aqualounge since the Mr & Mrs Wraten was in town for the long weekend. Thank goodness I showed up because I haven’t seen my wonderful friends from the Lifestyle B&B out in Oakville in months!! Fabulous re-connection and so good to see them out of the house! Even Cat-Love came out and she is sooooo bubbly. I know she wants me to go to Naughty Nawlin’s and probably share a room with her. We have the same taste in men so perhaps that would be handy!

I finally met my first couple from SLS website. They sent me a message telling me that they will be at the club via message but for some reason I didn’t write down their number right away and couldn’t find the message even though I responded back. Sure enough as I was at the club… running around talking to people, I did eventually meet them. We were slagging about meeting people online and not showing.. then I said, “wait a minute, I am suppose to be meeting someone today.” He pulled out his phone, showed me their profile. Indeed, I recognize the photo and they found my message.

As for the remaining weekend, I was with the family. Walked many neighborhoods, enjoy the weather, watched Iron Man 3 with my little brother in 3D, made dinner for the family, and baked several things for their tour. Got to sleep early! I have a very early morning and going back on Humble and Fred Radio Show. This time it will be also aired on SiriusXM. EXCITING!!

First Taste May 17 2013

First Taste is perfect for those that never been to an open, sexually charged atmosphere! It’s really not that daunting, just like the gym, once you get there, you make no excuses and physically feeling better for yourself. The tour last night wasn’t as busy but my co-host and I really enjoy conducting this casual yet brief event. We make sure that all your questions and concerns is answered to make your experience a pleasant one at the club. Oasis Aqualounge likes to see people return and leaving the club with a smile on your face.

Thursday night is the best night for couples that want the downtime together and enjoy each other’s presence. However, I do see the couples meeting friends there and having there own parties/gatherings and even a nice night to have a group of friends together, enjoy a birthday celebration! Esther De Ville, an Oasis staffer as well as part of the Great Canadian Burlesque Troupe even did a dance for the birthday boy!

Last night, I had already made plans with Boy Toy after First Taste is over and having our time together. We can’t chill at my place so Oasis is a perfect medium to meet. No laundry, hang out in the pool, and we were upstairs playing for a few hours last night. He knows how my body works and makes me squirt multiple times before I cum. Good thing I didn’t have to my own laundry! Both towels was purely soaked!! The sounds of moaning echoed down the levels and people approached us politely afterwards mentioning how “hot” that was. Well, it could have been hot visually or maybe audibly. I believe there was a few people peeking by the doorway but at that moment, I am in my own world, present with BT. Not concentrating on the list to do, family, whatever, just pleasure. Sex is a stress reliever! Now I can focus!

Overview on Hot Springs

Totally “Geeking” out with the one and only Reid Mahalko!

WOW! That was a busy day and night! We did run out of lockers at some point in the night and it was busy everywhere despite the well attended workshops by Sex and Consciousness Toronto special guests Reid Mahalko, Lawrence Lanoff, and Monique Darling. They did an amazing job at both workshops! Well I only did go to one workshop but the other was a sold out and I just heard that Monique was able to squirt in front of an audience (which is not easy to do, let alone there are those that never achieve that before).

We also had lomi lomi massage available by the pool every other Wednesday. I’ve also found a new sponsor for Hot Springs for sex toys and lingerie (including plus sizes) called Live it up in Style. My sponsor even brought her friend out that is in the industry and we had an amazing conversation.

Everywhere was busy and even had the delight of having Reid for some one-on-one time. I did appreciate his honesty and negotiating play was rather easy! Have to admit that was the first time ever had a dental dam being used on me. I wanted to see what it was like and surprisingly enough it was pretty hot. Normally, I’m not a big fan of the humming sensation but it was pretty nice. Our experience was more just foreplay but I am sure if we did engage any further we would need a few days. The energy was pretty hot!

Lawrence has a very beautiful presence about him. Our greeting at first was a big, warm welcome hug and full of static!! His pictures doesn’t do him justice and ones aura can’t be captured on camera. We had a big conversation about travel & food, got him hungry so we went to pick up dinner at the ultimate big grocery store near by the club. Hope to meet up someday and connect without all the busyness around!

My night ended with a nice glass of bubbles with a new guy from out of town and ended it off at his hotel room. What a big night! Slept like a baby …. he was very sweet to pick up breakfast for me in the morning before he had to attend a work conference.

Well I am up early today and I can’t sleep the day away! Head is still a little fuzzy but I am still on good girl duties with family. Oh the double life!

Overview on Hot Springs – May 8 2013

Sooooooooooo sorry that I didn’t write this sooner. First and foremost, I had my website upgrades and that entailed me going from WordPress.com to .org side. It’s been a bit of a process but managed. Thanks Dan! In between my Mother’s visit, I’ve managed to learn and use the calendar feature, plunking in all the events that is lined up and the media events that I am affiliated as well. Please check the Calender

This past Wednesday wasn’t as nice of a weather as last week but the party always is in the pool. The water is still warm and welcoming. The poor boys that I gave a tour around the club (a company that wants to do a documentary of the club) didn’t last long and meanwhile they should have stayed to talk to people and find out more details. The best people to talk to at that time was in the pool but I am sure they would be more then happy to talk to them if they were naked in the pool. If anyone that is interested in being part of this documentary (no face would be shown), please send me an email kitty@oasisaqualounge.com.

As always I have a great time meeting new people (even the one that was visiting from the US!) He felt bad for staring at my breasts and bought me a drink. Hmmm… how do I cash that if I caught every guy who looks at you?? I wonder… just kidding! The night progressed and it did become a bit of a blur for me. Somehow I ended up making out with this guy on the bean bag what seemed like hours and the night soon ended at Oasis. Just foreplay, that’s all! Afterall, I know I was going to see Boy Toy before I have family visiting me for the rest of the month! MsKitty has to be a good girl at home and then gets to be naughty at the club.

Swinger Fridays to Greek Easter

Friday night I hosted Swinger Fridays at Oasis Aqualounge. I even tried making these swinger necklaces. Apparently, people wear these necklaces with letters of your name, nickname (better than a sticker name tag) at conventions, hotel takeovers, etc. Sure, easier to remember people’s names and instead of saying “hey”, “baby”, “sweetheart”, etc. I did invite a few friends to come out and I even invited VooDoo down as a naughty date. Perhaps it was given since I was talking about VooDoo’s cock the night before with a girlfriend of mine. VooDoo maintained his promise that he would promise me at least two rounds. Last time one round is just not enough and my one friend decided to give me a nickname as the Iron Box.

I did have a good time at the club, even though my friends and VooDoo left before 1AM, I did run into some old friends including Mr and Mrs Finance. The dynamics on the weekends is so different then my Hot Springs, the energy is more relaxed.

Saturday was a super chill day. Tried to sleep in but my current bedroom gets warm in the AM and it’s like a sauna. Get caught up a few errands before I went to Oasis Aqualounge to enjoy the sunshine, get my naked tan on, and meeting Wilma (this lady that I met on Wednesday night & we are two peas in a pod). She even came with another female friend to give her a tour. A lovely late afternoon which followed by an awesome dinner at Cafe Diplomatico!! Love their veal parmigiana and fettuccine alfredo!! Now that I am back in dragon boat season, the night before practice, I can eat whatever I want. I cycle about 20km and paddle for 1.5 hours, it’s a good workout. Wilma and I ended up walking back to my place afterwards, drank some white wine, chilling on my bed, chatting and ended the night by watching a few things on the computer. I was in bed by midnight, like a good girl.

Sunday in the early AM did my cross training of cycling to Sunnyside Beach and paddled with my group. Great weather but Lake Ontario water is COLD! Definitely not Caribbean water!! I love being outside during the warm/hot weather. This past Toronto winter was a little longer then anticipated and now we get to enjoy it! Lady Shayne had a housewarming/birthday party at her house. Shayne wanted pictures of her friends on her wall and even had frames ready to put it up. Since everyone’s pictures is digital, who has paper pics these days?? I dug up my marathon photo from 2005 crossing the line at Honolulu since I bought a package of photos and sent them to my friends and family. (As seen and still up at Elbow Room Cafe in Vancouver.) Boy Toy came by late with wonderful BBQ leftovers from his Greek Easter feast. Hmmm… if I could have had a picture of me eating lamb as he bent me over the kitchen counter. I guess that is MsKitty’s definition of a Greek spit roast in the kitchen!!

Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge May 1st 2013

Finally the fabulous sunshine greeted everyone on May Day! May Day! I arrived mid-afternoon to find about at least a dozen people out by the pool sun bathing and flirty times in the pool. Since I have been hosting this baby for over a year, a chorus of people greeting Hello MsKitty, a kiss and a hug, a wave ( if I am in conversation) or a nod as they pass through.

Myth buster:

Single male nights is a wiener night at the club.

Truth:

Hot Springs is getting a better balance of men, women and couples. In fact, this past Hot Springs women and couples had a pretty even split of men and women ratio. More of the nudist and sunbathers is coming out of the woodwork! As the club keeps up with a good reputation, this event is getting more popular!

Gaia Morrissette taught her workshops in the late afternoon and one in the evening. I didn’t get the chance to sit in the Male Ejaculation Mastery but I did get the chance to be in the evening one about Making your Partner Scream! More about touching and feeling/connecting to your partner with the whole body and not just the genital areas.

The later of the evening just flew right by as I stayed downstairs most of the night. A gorgeous night, mingling with friends in the fresh air (as fresh as it could be in the heart of downtown!) and taking dips in the pool!!

There is still spots this summer for Hot Springs ideas. If you have any ideas, please send me an email kitty@oasisaqualounge.com

Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge April 24 2013

It’s been one of those wonky weeks(blame it on the full moon) and all I wanted to do was go and relax at Oasis. Decided to go about mid-afternoon and meet up with Mr Chef. These days he has a lady friend that has been accompany him so I haven’t seen much of him. None the less, I still like him as a friend so that doesn’t change anything.

Fionna Flauntit and I had an impromptu meeting with the Mill Street Brewery Boys. We are planning to do a summer launch pool party + bikini contest + beer tastings + Jagermeister tasting (they are on-board too)!! Saturday, June 15!! Mark your calendars!!

My friends D&D came into the city for an overnight and decided that they would like to watch me in host-mode. We met up for dinner and opt to go to the Keg Mansion over on Jarvis. D&D had great questions for me such as how to say no during negotiations, and figuring out their comfort zones. Every couple that I have met has several different ways how they came into the lifestyle. Most people talk about it, some have run into it by accident, some have thought it was just a nudist vacation and didn’t think much more of it. Worst case scenario is to surprise your partner and not tell them what kind of vacation and especially if you board a ship and have no control on how to get off the ship.

After dinner, we caught the tail end of the Right Approach to Attracting Women seminar, hosted by Miss F**. This time we had a few different female staff to be part of the acting. It’s good to switch it up and have different people’s approach. Sometime people use slightly different body language and it’s much appreciated to recognize the differences.

Next week on Wednesday we have some juicy workshops called Male Ejaculation Mastery Workshop 4PM to 6PM & Make your Lover Scream your Name!! 8PM to 10PM happening at Hot Springs by Gaia Morrissette and again, connected with Sex and Consciousness Toronto.

Friends, Food, and Sex en Mi Casa!

Happy housewarming dinner party this past Friday night. A lot of my friends that have been part of my life in the last few years whether they are part of the lifestyle, fetish, colleagues, and even a few from outside of the scene came over to my house. I think about 25 to 30 people attended and everyone brought a lot of food to be shared such as wild game spaghetti salads(by Mr and Mrs Wraten), Vigi’s lamb Popsicle (by Mr Tight Buns – forgot his other original nick name), cheesecake(by Mrs Cuter with Curves), cupcakes, macaroons, fruit, and wine to share among everyone. It was a lovely spread of food!!. Most people knew each other and if they didn’t, everyone was pretty cordial together in the same room. Not only it was a housewarming/dinner party, we also celebrated two birthdays as well!! Birthday Daddy got a head start and had some action on my bed. Gave them my rubber sheet and sex towels & good-to-go.

After the dinner party, most of us went to Fetish Friday at Oasis Aqualounge to continue partying with everyone else and take the noise out to the club to vent it all out! My condo building is mostly older people so keeping the noise level to the minimum is a great idea. Besides I don’t want to do too much laundry, the beauty of playing outside of home is someone else to do the cleaning! A great night spending it with friends and Boy Toy came by after he finished work so the night is just getting started!! Boy Toy is always tentative, all eyes on me, and shower me with PDA.

Boy Toy and I soon take our play upstairs, I couldn’t wait to ravage him since I haven’t seen him in 5 days. Thank goodness my mid-week menage a trois sedate my sex hunger (which was a pretty hot scene, tell you more in a bit). We started playing, clothes strewn all over the floor and having our way with each other. A couple laying in the next bed watching us and soon another couple came in, watching and playing with each other. As soon as the other couple beside us left, the other couple hopped to the next bed to us. Somehow in the mix, the boys negotiated some play. Boy Toy ended up fucking the lady in the couple. I watched them play and didn’t play with the male. He was more interested in watching his wife getting fucked by other men. Meanwhile, I could have gotten upset but it was hot watching him fuck this lady. Does it look that hot when he fuck me on my fours?? I think it does…. so meanwhile when positions changed and she got on top of boy toy reverse cow girl and I sat on his face, I squirted all over his face three/four times.

Mr and Mrs Wraten stayed overnight at my house, along with Boy Toy. Good thing they came prepared with an air mattress. Fell fast asleep as soon as we got home. However, I must have been dreaming about sex since I kept playing with his cock all morning and woke him up early. Hot and horny first thing in the morning and the new word is sex alarm. Waking up people next bed over to the sounds of sex!! Grumble, grumble, spooning turns cock simultaneously rock hard. Good morning!!

Saturday night I stayed in. I couldn’t muster up the energy to go out and be on. Sometimes MsKitty needs a night off and chill out at home. There is still plenty of leftovers to eat and unfinished bottles of wine to drink. The kitchen sink was clogged all weekend and after two bottles of Drano, baby plunger, and hot water & dish soap combo finally released the clogged pipe.

Kitty Lotus the Dirty Cop with Riding Crop!

Sunday afternoon it was my second appearance on Victory Commonwealth Wrestling as Kitty Lotus. Wore my cop outfit and had my riding crop in hand. My “Wrestling boyfriend”, Rex Atkins is a total villain and puts out a fight. When Gabriel Soul-Jones rolled out of the ring, I had an opportunity to knee him in the chest and got chased around the ring. Being part of this group is a fun side thing and now the boys in the backstage expects to see me as part of the gang.

Overview on Hot Springs April 17 2013

The weather is finally warming up in Toronto! Thank goodness that I missed the last snow storm while I was away. The party was in the pool and even at few points in the night on the dance floor. One of our new patrons who happen to be workin’ the stripper pole, a male stripper knew how to dance and that was rather entertaining as I ate my late dinner at the bar.

It’s great running into friends as we sat at the bar to socialize, chillin’ in the pool or in the greenhouse aka smoke hut smoking cigars.

Dirty Bingo was held in the dungeon. Apparently, it has been shortened to 10 games as oppose to 15 games. Once the weather is warmer, it will be by the pool area again and the games will be longer. Come on time and don’t miss out the fun! I love seeing girls going home with toys in their hands and smiling! Even men come out to play to win for girlfriends/partner or for themselves and do trades with others if the prize is not a right fit.

Of course the Wraten’s came by with their trunk of sexy outfits for the ladies. Mr Wraten loves dressing up the ladies and Mrs Wraten & I watch all this go on and having our conversation by ourselves. They will be sleeping over at my place tonight since I am hosting a big dinner party. Love dinner parties and this is the biggest one yet. Should be an awesome one as it gets later it will shift over to Fetish Friday at Oasis Aqualounge!! It’s Tigress’s aka Daddy’s birthday weekend!!

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