Back in Tarana….and Back for the Summer!

Checking out one of the photo features on the BB Q10 phone!

It’s been a hell of trip flying back home! Must be the curse, never in my life had an airline decide to go and fly an hour earlier without even any notification via email or phone call. TOTAL BS! None-the-less, I got home late on Friday night and I got picked up by Boy Toy at the airport. Nothing like Welcome Home fuck and stayed up for 24 hours to start cleaning my house. Sometimes good sex can either go either way, put you to a nice, deep sleep or the reverse – gives you lots of energy and start doing things around the house. I guess that’s what will happen when you need some Vitamin D, Vitamin Dick or perhaps, I was excited to be home and looking forward to my upcoming projects ahead of me.

Now that I am back home, decorating the house, creating a space that feels like my own place especially my living room is my own library filled with books and plants. I want more plants here to create a serene area. Just as long as it’s not floral, which I am allergic to most flowers. Seriously, skip the flowers they will be out on my balcony instead of inside the house. Stopped by at Oasis on Saturday afternoon to chaperone a friend into the club but some naked sunbathing is what I needed! After that, I also picked up a new Blackberry Q10, will be starting to do more self-portraits and videos (YAY!) More features = more dynamic! When I was away, I’ve been doing some reading, research, and self-reflecting on things that I can improve. As a perfect saying been told to me, “Practice makes Perfect.” -author unknown

Early Sunday morning bike ride in the rain and then having my dragonboat practice (getting prepared for this coming weekend racing June 22 and 23 over on Toronto Islands). That very night, the whole anticipation being on the Asylum Radio on Sunday Night Confessions with Tereasa Venom, not knowing the topics but letting it flow organically like a girl chat. It turned out to be fun discussing website, travel, coaching a couple in a swinging situation, Oasis etiquette, negotiations, squirting, and foreskin vs uncut penis. Tune in next week at 10PM(EST) on Sunday, June 23 again to listen to the Panel of Men, point of view on female ejaculation!

See you tomorrow June 19 2013 for some Dirty Bingo(8PM) by the poolside and hey, it should be 23 degrees Celsius, perfect for sunbathing!! Get your naked tan on!

Overview on Hot Springs June 5 2013

As most people know, well maybe some know that I am away and I have a guest blogger to help me post about Hot Springs. Fresh eyes is always great; a different perspective on how they see the event in the day and in the evening. Check out what Mia D’Francesco and what she has to say on the event:

Theme: Teacher’s night at Oasis Aqualounge

Naughty Student being scolded on the stool.

It was a honor to cover last night’s event; it was thrilling considering the theme is personal.

There is a world of difference; attending one of Ms Kitty’s events during the day compared to at night. It is truly an Oasis in the middle of the city. Once you cross through the door it’s as if you’re leaving everything outside. Even though the pool is outdoors, the background of the city disappears. No noises from passing cars or people walking on the sidewalks. No scents of the outside city lingering about. It was a very calming and relaxing feeling. The sun was shinny brightly between the clouds with a light breeze when I took the steps leading out onto the pool deck. Although, we all had to wait to get into the pool as they were double checking levels (love the safety concerns, continues to encourage adventurous experiences) the afternoon was spent pool side among new and old friends. I enjoy that a group of us in the middle of the day; in the middle of a work week are able to find the little get away. Heck I am sure a few people sitting with me, decided to drop by during their lunch hour. The conversations are always ones to remember. Topics from suntan lotions and creams to preference from bare to hair. Almost nothing is off-limits (I did say almost). I did finally get into the pool. Love that pool.

Were you put in the corner?

The evening came about so quickly. The day had come and gone. I returned to Oasis just after 8 and the main bar was already lined with people. It is always a great thing to see people engaging in these theme nights. I love dressing up for theme nights and playing the part. I set up near DJ Melanie. The dunce caps and naughty stools were ready and waiting. One woman found herself in deep trouble and had to take a time-out. Pool side, we decided on a surprise quiz on the female anatomy, specifically finding the clitoris. I am happy to report that all the “students” were able to locate it (on a piece of paper, I know what you were thinking, naughty). Alas as the night wined down and people found their way around the Victoria masterpiece. Laughs turned into sounds of joy. It had come to an end. The teacher got to take her desert break.

Now, there is a little something that bugged me. As I was leaving for the afternoon, in order to return home to prepare for the evening. A gentleman (used loosely) decided he was going to lightly pat my ass as I took the first step down the stairs. Since I was representing another party; I am glad to say that I didn’t address the behavior as I usually may have. I just continued on my way, with smile on my face.

A part of me wished to remind him that the ass he had patted did not belong to him. My body is my personal space. He did not have my permission to enter into my personal space. Just because I am there, doesn’t mean I am there for the taking. It’s my choice and my decision. Proper social protocol would have included extending your arm and hand and introducing yourself. That may have worked much better in your favor. Hugs are acceptable as I am a big time hugger. Gentle caress of the back, arms, legs are also acceptable. Reaching over for palm full of tits and ass is not acceptable. I would relate this to Ms Kitty’s post about negotiations. It is much more than knowing about the when’s as it’s also knowing about the how’s. If you wish to negotiate with me, do it with a little respect and gentleman-like qualities.

On that note, my oh my. This little cutie with an accent called me Ma’am and I wet myself there and then.

Keeping it on the D.L.

Mia

**PS Hope you enjoyed a different perspective for the night. Sometimes I feel that I am repeating myself so I am sure it will be refreshing to read someone else’s point of view. Don’t get me wrong, I did miss you last night. Nothing worse then having the case of allergies, high on meds, at the hotel in Panama, and watching Cruel Intentions II. Thanks for supporting Hot Springs!**

Kensington Market; A Hidden Neighborhood Gem

Let’s Keep Kensington Market as is and sign the petition!

I love this neighborhood and always thought a place I felt like “home”. It reminds me of “Commercial Drive” back in Vancouver; the best store for cheese, coffee, produce, incense, and quick foods under $10. Please support this petition to refrain from having it changed to large corporations invading the area. We already have big markets close by within walking distance and don’t need other eye sores.

Here is the link and keep Kensington Market the way it is!!

http://www.change.org/en-CA/petitions/don-t-let-a-walmart-and-3-story-shopping-mall-destroy-kensington-market#

Welcome to Miami!

Welcome to Miami and only in SOBE for two nights. How to mix naughty times yet having to be with the family and sharing the same room? Obviously, nothing is going to happen in the HOTEL MOTEL and no, I didn’t stay at the Holiday Inn. Stayed at a really nice boutique hotel in South Beach and I managed to get my flirt on with the hotel concierge. We ended up meeting else where to watch the Miami basketball game at a bar and went back to his place afterwards. Poor guy, he hasn’t gotten laid for six months and therefore didn’t last long. I was pretty tired since I only had three hours of sleep the night after Hot Springs. Too bad, he’s actually a nice guy but quite the chatty Cathy. Oh well, one less night sharing the bed with my Mom.

Next day I met this older gentleman at this art boutique. Compelling fellow and we ended up having wine later in the evening back at his condo. Really nice fellow and I knew he wanted to get it on but I’m not interested in having sex if there is no foreplay. Sex is a lot of fun but I’m not going to settle for just regular in and out thrusting. Sure there are times it’s nice to have a quickie with someone that I know but it’s not like that all the time. I prefer to be pleasured in multiple ways, why be so generic??

Didn’t get to go to Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale. I guess I should have planned better to get a ride arranged. Didn’t realize it was a 45 minute ride one way. Boo.

Well now that I am in Panama City, let’s see if I can stay virginal for 2 weeks. At least I know what I have at home and plus Mr Sandman is coming to visit me over Canada Day long weekend!! Something to look forward to!

Overview on Hot Springs May 29 2013

Hot Springs Poster #2

Weather was all mixed up this past Wednesday but the sun was out just in time when I arrived at the club mid-afternoon. I was immediately greeted by one our new marketing staff member. I guess we will see how well she will mesh with the staff and check out her strategies. As the club expands and seeking the right fit with our staff, we need it as we reach different outreach to other communities.

Had to “dot my i’s and cross my t’s” before leaving so I had to make sure everything is aligned. Meeting with staff and more marketing updates before I left Toronto for a few weeks the next day(as I am sitting in the hotel for a cooling down at the moment).

The place was getting packed already by 7:30pm. Dirty Bingo players piled up in the dungeon and apparently, lots of new faces showed up too!! It was an awesome time by the poolside conversation, chill and flirt with some people that was their first time in the club (Mr I-can-only-imagine-what-you-would-do-to-me-but-I-will-use-your-poetry-as -foreplay!) White wine was the choice of beverage and the flirty Kitty was on! Perhaps, I couldn’t wait for Boy Toy to come by for my farewell fuck before I go. The anticipation is all building up inside of me. My mind wonders and waits patiently. Thinking that I won’t be getting any action for 16 days to clean my sins away.

Safer Sex, protect yourself and your partner!

Boy Toy arrives and my mind relaxes. To keep the long story short, I have decided what I’m not comfortable with engaging with people in the play area. Couples see us playing on a bed and want to join in without negotiating anything. This is something that has happened to me a few times in the open concept play areas of the club when I am playing with Boy Toy. I notice the girl (decently attractive) and as for the guy, I am not interested in a full swap. I didn’t like it when they were trying to interrupt me in the midst of an orgasm (really, really bad pet peeve of mine). It made the situation awkward especially if that couple doesn’t want to use condoms either. NOT INTERESTED!! My comfort level is if I am interested in a couple first or if a couple is interested in us, they should approach me before the sex is happening, not during. Watch all you want, but if I am already connecting with someone or a group, let me be.

Deja Vu: Car Sex

After all the crazy madness that happened at the airport dropping some of my family back at the airport, I wanted to jump on Boy Toy. Both of us has family at the house, Oasis was not an option last night (since it was Sapphic Aquatica) so we opt to go to the parking lot of a beautiful park and had our action in the car. As creepy as it was outside, perhaps a little too much Criminal Minds or odd shows like the Walking Dead, it was pretty hot. No one else around except the sounds of geese, Humber River and the surrounding trees. The seats angled back, car rocked back and forth, windows fogged, intermittent of the lightening speared the sky, and the smell of each other took over the vehicle. Multiple rounds of orgasms, rest, try to put clothes back on but it started all over again. Definitely, a few angles that we did were camera worthy and good for me. Hmm mmm … could I do this again?? Perhaps. Only it was better then high school car sex!

Overview on Hot Springs May 22 2013

Pic of the Day! Guess who?? I miss the smell of the Westcoast!

The weather was a bit fickle but the sun did show up in the mid-afternoon. Still the die-hard day regulars show up and still enjoy the heated all year round pool! A relaxing hump day, connecting and socializing with friends around the pool deck is pretty awesome. Oasis is still a hidden gem in the heart of downtown Toronto. What better way to relax, chill, enjoy bar service, and connect with new people.

These days having my family around gives me a bit of an edge. Sometimes I’m feeling curt with people but it’s a lot of work hosting family at my house. Having to be on good daughter duties and that entails cooking, baking, cleaning, doing more house chores, and being a tour guide! Just on a break from them as they are enjoying the Ontario sites, catching up, working lots before I begin my travel abroad with family for the first half of June. My friend, Mia who will be guest blogging for me will cover the first two Wednesdays. It will be a great opportunity to see a different point of view and perhaps it will be nice to have guest writers to participate/write about their experiences at Hot Springs.

Last night after my dinner meeting and back at the club around 10PM, I decided that it was going to be a chill night, people watching and talk to some new people by the bar area. I love hearing about people’s story. How did they hear about the club, what made them decide to come to a club like Oasis, and how they negotiate play. I did find one fellow very interesting and something that I have never seen at any lifestyle event before. This fellow, was carrying a few (new) packaged sex toys. I guess if you were interested in having the toys, you would then have to interact with him and the toys would be yours to keep. Would you, as a girl be enticed to have sex with him?? He asked me a few times but as the night did get late, my bed was calling my name. I’d politely declined his offer, again (after he asked me the second time). Curious, what would you do if you were in my position??

4 Members Only Show by Dwayne Morgan May 21 2013

MsKitty will be watching this hot show by Dwayne Morgan and will be giving some free passes out to Hot Springs!

MsKitty watched this hot show by Dwayne Morgan and gave out some free passes to Hot Springs!

What a fantastic show by Dwayne Morgan! I love the erotic poetry with his live band and of course with his special guests at Lula Lounge. This lounge has the classic, old school theater circular seating that made it really intimate gathering with your date and friends. The whole experience with the beginning right from the door (the door/taking admission) gave out these sexy packages from Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention, friends (Mr Tight Buns & his Mrs), my date aka Boy Toy (and all the PDA, we couldn’t wait to go home), the show itself and the fun games giving out prizes. I can’t totally dish out the games details but they were fun (and I may have to steal one of the games to use at the club) but it was a pretty fun!! Dwayne, you didn’t disappoint, it’s foreplay in my head and that’s internally an engine starter. Sorry I didn’t go up to the stage again for the one has underwear in their purse, I didn’t want to be a cashing in on too many prizes since i cashed in for having condoms already!!

I do keep a spare underwear in my purse!

PS. Even though the attendance is mostly people of color, don’t get too caught up on it. The crowd was still pleasant, cordial, and quite well-dressed. ) I didn’t take a picture of myself but the photographer onsite did take a pic of Boy Toy and I with our prizes!

Humble and Fred Radio Now on SiriusXM, May 21 2013

The new Promo Poster in their wait room!

Congratulations to Humble and Fred that recently went over to SiriusXM! So exciting and honored to be part of the show once a month. Despite the early morning and put on game face/one liners. Since I was already on good daughter duties, I baked my family the infamous blueberry yogurt muffins and the ultimate coconut chocolate chip banana bread, I had put aside for the radio crew to enjoy.

Josh, is this YOU?

Well today we had fun with a caller name Josh(never experienced a threesome with two girls and trying to set it up on air) on the phone, causing a stir with Emily Muse, Eileen Ross, and of course, Humble & Fred!!

Here is the podcast!

http://www.humbleandfredradio.com/listen-to-humble-and-fred/2013/05/panel-of-women-dave-white.html

Couples bring your unicorn and they get to come in for free!!

Speaking of threesomes, I can’t wait to go this party at Oasis this coming Saturday. Love this poster! Couples bring your third aka unicorn and they get in for free!! ” ’cause Couples play together, stay together!” It’s a way to celebrate the Relationship Show this coming weekend at the International Trade Center. I am not sure how I am going to swing this after being on my feet for 12 hours and I have to race on Sunday.

Feelin’ like a Cougar to Family Obligations….

More family trickled in over this weekend. It’s a full house and having to share a bed with your mother is not like I have space to masturbate or bring someone home to fuck. Good thing I will have about 5 days break from them and try to get as much done- work, fuck and sleep.

HMMM.. ALWAYS..

Friday night, dying to go out and vent, I had last minute plans to meet up with my American speakers from Wednesday’s workshop. It was so nice to meet them and I am glad that they had a successful time. I can’t believe we ended up at Madison Pub. I loved the company, hated the smoke on the patio (used to the patios in Vancouver where it is non-smoking), and met some wonderful people that went to their workshop on Friday. As I was leaving the pub, some guy was a bit sloppy and had the hipster glasses, dress shirt and tie look, tried to pick me up. Honey, it ain’t happening. I was so not going to use my cougar abilities that night and definitely not going back to your residence to fuck either. Funny at the moment but my eyes sure rolled a few times around.

Saturday night I knew I had to show up to Oasis Aqualounge since the Mr & Mrs Wraten was in town for the long weekend. Thank goodness I showed up because I haven’t seen my wonderful friends from the Lifestyle B&B out in Oakville in months!! Fabulous re-connection and so good to see them out of the house! Even Cat-Love came out and she is sooooo bubbly. I know she wants me to go to Naughty Nawlin’s and probably share a room with her. We have the same taste in men so perhaps that would be handy!

I finally met my first couple from SLS website. They sent me a message telling me that they will be at the club via message but for some reason I didn’t write down their number right away and couldn’t find the message even though I responded back. Sure enough as I was at the club… running around talking to people, I did eventually meet them. We were slagging about meeting people online and not showing.. then I said, “wait a minute, I am suppose to be meeting someone today.” He pulled out his phone, showed me their profile. Indeed, I recognize the photo and they found my message.

As for the remaining weekend, I was with the family. Walked many neighborhoods, enjoy the weather, watched Iron Man 3 with my little brother in 3D, made dinner for the family, and baked several things for their tour. Got to sleep early! I have a very early morning and going back on Humble and Fred Radio Show. This time it will be also aired on SiriusXM. EXCITING!!

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