Overview on Hot Springs @ Oasis Aqualounge – August 1st

What beautiful weather Wednesday wise. Perfect weather to relax in the sunshine areas by the poolside is noon to 5PM. The sun is hidden by the high rise but that’s OK. The sun is pretty intense these days and the pool water is the right temperature to cool off. Great to see some of the new patrons returning and as well as more couples and single ladies joining us. This past Wednesday, it was really balanced. Yes, not all single men is a horror show. Some just need to be taught, gently that “No is No”. I can’t say everything just negative, there are a few that are polite and respectful too. Not all the single men will wank and jerk at every presence of a female.

Dirty Bingo
Wed, August 22
8PM to 11PM
Oasis Aqualounge!

I met Tereasa a few months back for Dirty Bingo at a dive-y tavern.We have been conversing online ever since and finally invited her to join us at Hot Springs event. Dirty Bingo is actually fun! You pay a nominal fee for the cards and when you win Bingo, instead of cash, it will be a sex toy. It’s a lot of fun and she’s a fabulous lady. When she yells, “I 69″, there is a lot of hoot ‘n hollering’! If this all works out, a great turn out on Wednesday, August 22 at Oasis Aqualounge 8PM to 11PM, we will definitely have her return to the club. Who would say no to winning sex toys?? This is a better way to entertain then a Tupperware party!!

I stepped out for dinner and missed a whole block of time at Hot Springs. I came back late to join the late evening crew. Again, so nice to see new faces and a lot of flirting in and out of the pool. I know winter time I am by the bar until pool time to get undressed to join others. Summer time, you’ll find me outside by the pool area chatting away, making sure everyone is having a good time or catching up with old friends. Hot Springs is not always about sex, it’s also a space to be with friends, nude optional, pool, drinks, hot tub, exchange massage, conversation, flirting and take it from there. The best attitude is go with no expectations and just ease into the atmosphere. If you go with the intentions of just hook ups, people can sense desperation, so relax. Tranquilo.

This coming Wednesday at Hot Springs is SSN Events and a Fetlife group is joining us on August 8th 11AM to 2AM. If SSN events have the same schedule like last time, they have an afternoon show and evening show. Not sure how the other group will be since the lady that is organizing her friends is from out-of-town and it will be my first time meeting in person other than our communication has been solely emails.

Fifty Shades of What What?? or shall I call it Mommy Porn??

OK, OK, I didn’t read the book(s) Fifty Shades of Grey or shall I call it Fifty Shades of Mommy Porn? I don’t think I will purchase the book(s) but maybe I will borrow them from multiple friends who got sucked into buying the book. That way I can make my own opinion of the book.

I have to say my first BDSM book was actually a manual called Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns; The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon. Now this book first print was back in 1995 and I am sure they keep reprinting it each year for updates such as SM Support groups around the world. Now that we have internet we can find groups, classes to learn, and if you are lucky – a mentor who can teach you hands on and answers all your questions. Even though I have been in the scene for quite sometime, there is always something to learn. Don’t be scared. Not all is scary and some of it is really quite sensual. Of course there are others that like it really intense but has managed to build up to it.

Since the whole phenomenon with the Fifty Shades of what what, fetish accessories and clothing has been flying off the shelves!! One of my favorite stores called NorthBound Leather has an article written about them in the Financial Post. Congratulations!

http://business.financialpost.com/2012/07/23/fifty-shades-of-grey-sets-fetish-industry-sales-on-fire/

Another article from BNN:

http://www.bnn.ca/News/2012/8/3/Fifty-shades-of-green.aspx

**Northbound Leather has Fetish Fridays at Oasis Aqualounge every third Friday of the month**

My review on Fetish Fridays:

http://mskittyintoronto.com/2012/03/18/fetish-friday-oasis-aqualounge/

CIUT Radio Interview “Sex City”

The whole posse of HOTME (Heat of the Moment Express), film crew, slave, and I went to CIUT (University of Toronto radio station) to be part of the Sex City segment. Of course, the whole was being filmed with our webisode film crew. It was a total riot! That day we were already doing some filming and decided to test out the Clone a Willy or otherwise known as Mold a Cock. Instead of trying it out on a cock, we decided that we should do a great vegetable and make a present for the host of the show, Jon Pressick. We thought we could trick him that was the CEO’s cock as he unravel the present….

If you missed the segment, you can listen to it here:

http://dl.dropbox.com/u/55875947/060512%20Sex%20City%20(Jon).mp3

Here is the lovely pic of Jon Pressick and his present from us!

Save $5 off your purchase with HOTME when you use “Kitty” in promo code!

PS. Looking forward to Mold a Cock night this coming Wed, June 13 @ Oasis Aqualounge!!

Meeting Dwayne Morgan

Dwayne Morgan; a poet, speaker and social entrepreneur, started to follow me, MsKitty on Twitter. A few common friends somehow Twitter land thinks we should be friends or have something in common with each other. Not knowing that I did ran into him at Yuk Yuk’s Nubian Disciples hosted by Kenny Robinson when he was flyer his event called “The Black Love Soul” until I got home to Tweet but really to Twat about going to Yuk Yuk’s. Dwayne made a point that I didn’t say hi but already that was too late. I manage to redeem myself by mentioning about making plans to meet for a quick drink.

We met and pleasantly surprised how relax and easy-going, certainly a gentleman. Not long after we sat, he came bearing with gifts a book of poetry called Cunnilinguistics: The Sensual Musings and a CD called Idle Hands. I teased him when we were making a day to meet that he would whisper sweet words in my ears. OK, that was far-fetched but I certainly do have fond memories of past ex’s that would write and leave me poetry for me to read. In fact writing is like a fetish of mine.

So last night after a few hours at Northbound Leather party at Goodhandy’s, I met up with Bat Mann at my house and decided to put on the Idle Hands album. Please let me tell you, it was more then sweet words whispering his poetry in my ears (which some of the poems on the CD is in the very same book mentioned), it set the tone of ravishing, hot sex. The sequence of the music was pretty much in sync, you’ll get what I mean if you have ever listen to this CD and fuck at the same time. Completely different then listening to Slayer and fucking, nothing wrong with a little heavy metal.

I would love to see this as a collaboration with DR G Slow Jams, Slow Dance night that happens the first Friday of every month at Oasis Aqualounge. How romantic would that be??

Buzz me Softly….. to Sleep

Ever wanted to purchase sex toys but too shy to go to the store? Shop in the comfort of your home, purchases can be done online at http://heatofthemomentexpress.com and have it delivered directly within an hour or two (if you live in the GTA, sorry it won’t be applicable in other areas) at your house, coffee shop and even to the hotel. The beauty of it, packaging is done in a non-labeled, bubble wrap envelop(just like the post office) and even a decorative box to store all your toys (like I did!)

Decorative Gift package

I met Roberto from Heat of the Moment Express at Sexapalooza. They are a fresh, new company(less then a year old) with a great concept and loving the idea that I can be their product reviewer! Not only that, Heat of the Moment Express will be sponsoring a Hot Springs event (date TBA) toys for boys and girls! We tentatively have a project that we will be working on… TBA when finalized.

The discreet packaging **Note the receipt is plain and only the amount owing**

Wanna know what the very first toy I got?? I got the We Vibe II! Love it, love it, love it!! First the packaging, classy, translated in 6 languages-English, French, Spanish, Japanese, Chinese, and Portuguese, easy-to-use instruction pamphlet, and comes with a little silk bag to put your toy in. The beauty of this product, no batteries needed, rechargeable (don’t worry, you can use it when you get it right away but it is preferred to be charged before usage).

We Vibe II, Tingle Clitoris Gel, and iTLube. Inside the package comes with a Free Delivery Voucher and a pamphlet about heatofthemomentexpress.com

I started with Tingle Clitoral Gel just to get some heat in that area. The sensation was really quite something when your hands are cool (wash your hands in cooler water or even try some ice). Literally, just use a small amount, 2 pumps most. This will not be burning like Halls cough drops, can I say “ouch?” After a couple of minutes, feeling all the sensations, I decided to add on the We Vibe, instructions will tell you which side to insert into the vagina and the other side external on the clitoris (thank you to the clinical pictures) and then it also shows you how to play use it solo or with your partner. Since I was by myself, I got to comfortable with it right away. It was comfortable, thinking I can use this with a strap-on wear the We Vibe and if female partner(that pic was in the instruction pamphlet). That could be an interesting visual! I am also curious what it would be like to use the We Vibe II with my male partner too or maybe wearing it to dinner?

Listen to the radio ad:

Heat of the Moment Express