Pic of the Day! Guess who?? I miss the smell of the Westcoast!
The weather was a bit fickle but the sun did show up in the mid-afternoon. Still the die-hard day regulars show up and still enjoy the heated all year round pool! A relaxing hump day, connecting and socializing with friends around the pool deck is pretty awesome. Oasis is still a hidden gem in the heart of downtown Toronto. What better way to relax, chill, enjoy bar service, and connect with new people.
These days having my family around gives me a bit of an edge. Sometimes I’m feeling curt with people but it’s a lot of work hosting family at my house. Having to be on good daughter duties and that entails cooking, baking, cleaning, doing more house chores, and being a tour guide! Just on a break from them as they are enjoying the Ontario sites, catching up, working lots before I begin my travel abroad with family for the first half of June. My friend, Mia who will be guest blogging for me will cover the first two Wednesdays. It will be a great opportunity to see a different point of view and perhaps it will be nice to have guest writers to participate/write about their experiences at Hot Springs.
Last night after my dinner meeting and back at the club around 10PM, I decided that it was going to be a chill night, people watching and talk to some new people by the bar area. I love hearing about people’s story. How did they hear about the club, what made them decide to come to a club like Oasis, and how they negotiate play. I did find one fellow very interesting and something that I have never seen at any lifestyle event before. This fellow, was carrying a few (new) packaged sex toys. I guess if you were interested in having the toys, you would then have to interact with him and the toys would be yours to keep. Would you, as a girl be enticed to have sex with him?? He asked me a few times but as the night did get late, my bed was calling my name. I’d politely declined his offer, again (after he asked me the second time). Curious, what would you do if you were in my position??
MsKitty watched this hot show by Dwayne Morgan and gave out some free passes to Hot Springs!
What a fantastic show by Dwayne Morgan! I love the erotic poetry with his live band and of course with his special guests at Lula Lounge. This lounge has the classic, old school theater circular seating that made it really intimate gathering with your date and friends. The whole experience with the beginning right from the door (the door/taking admission) gave out these sexy packages from Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention, friends (Mr Tight Buns & his Mrs), my date aka Boy Toy (and all the PDA, we couldn’t wait to go home), the show itself and the fun games giving out prizes. I can’t totally dish out the games details but they were fun (and I may have to steal one of the games to use at the club) but it was a pretty fun!! Dwayne, you didn’t disappoint, it’s foreplay in my head and that’s internally an engine starter. Sorry I didn’t go up to the stage again for the one has underwear in their purse, I didn’t want to be a cashing in on too many prizes since i cashed in for having condoms already!!
I do keep a spare underwear in my purse!
PS. Even though the attendance is mostly people of color, don’t get too caught up on it. The crowd was still pleasant, cordial, and quite well-dressed. ) I didn’t take a picture of myself but the photographer onsite did take a pic of Boy Toy and I with our prizes!
The new Promo Poster in their wait room!
Congratulations to Humble and Fred that recently went over to SiriusXM! So exciting and honored to be part of the show once a month. Despite the early morning and put on game face/one liners. Since I was already on good daughter duties, I baked my family the infamous blueberry yogurt muffins and the ultimate coconut chocolate chip banana bread, I had put aside for the radio crew to enjoy.
Josh, is this YOU?
Well today we had fun with a caller name Josh(never experienced a threesome with two girls and trying to set it up on air) on the phone, causing a stir with Emily Muse, Eileen Ross, and of course, Humble & Fred!!
Here is the podcast!
Couples bring your unicorn and they get to come in for free!!
Speaking of threesomes, I can’t wait to go this party at Oasis this coming Saturday. Love this poster! Couples bring your third aka unicorn and they get in for free!! ” ’cause Couples play together, stay together!” It’s a way to celebrate the Relationship Show this coming weekend at the International Trade Center. I am not sure how I am going to swing this after being on my feet for 12 hours and I have to race on Sunday.
More family trickled in over this weekend. It’s a full house and having to share a bed with your mother is not like I have space to masturbate or bring someone home to fuck. Good thing I will have about 5 days break from them and try to get as much done- work, fuck and sleep.
Friday night, dying to go out and vent, I had last minute plans to meet up with my American speakers from Wednesday’s workshop. It was so nice to meet them and I am glad that they had a successful time. I can’t believe we ended up at Madison Pub. I loved the company, hated the smoke on the patio (used to the patios in Vancouver where it is non-smoking), and met some wonderful people that went to their workshop on Friday. As I was leaving the pub, some guy was a bit sloppy and had the hipster glasses, dress shirt and tie look, tried to pick me up. Honey, it ain’t happening. I was so not going to use my cougar abilities that night and definitely not going back to your residence to fuck either. Funny at the moment but my eyes sure rolled a few times around.
Saturday night I knew I had to show up to Oasis Aqualounge since the Mr & Mrs Wraten was in town for the long weekend. Thank goodness I showed up because I haven’t seen my wonderful friends from the Lifestyle B&B out in Oakville in months!! Fabulous re-connection and so good to see them out of the house! Even Cat-Love came out and she is sooooo bubbly. I know she wants me to go to Naughty Nawlin’s and probably share a room with her. We have the same taste in men so perhaps that would be handy!
I finally met my first couple from SLS website. They sent me a message telling me that they will be at the club via message but for some reason I didn’t write down their number right away and couldn’t find the message even though I responded back. Sure enough as I was at the club… running around talking to people, I did eventually meet them. We were slagging about meeting people online and not showing.. then I said, “wait a minute, I am suppose to be meeting someone today.” He pulled out his phone, showed me their profile. Indeed, I recognize the photo and they found my message.
As for the remaining weekend, I was with the family. Walked many neighborhoods, enjoy the weather, watched Iron Man 3 with my little brother in 3D, made dinner for the family, and baked several things for their tour. Got to sleep early! I have a very early morning and going back on Humble and Fred Radio Show. This time it will be also aired on SiriusXM. EXCITING!!
First Taste is perfect for those that never been to an open, sexually charged atmosphere! It’s really not that daunting, just like the gym, once you get there, you make no excuses and physically feeling better for yourself. The tour last night wasn’t as busy but my co-host and I really enjoy conducting this casual yet brief event. We make sure that all your questions and concerns is answered to make your experience a pleasant one at the club. Oasis Aqualounge likes to see people return and leaving the club with a smile on your face.
Thursday night is the best night for couples that want the downtime together and enjoy each other’s presence. However, I do see the couples meeting friends there and having there own parties/gatherings and even a nice night to have a group of friends together, enjoy a birthday celebration! Esther De Ville, an Oasis staffer as well as part of the Great Canadian Burlesque Troupe even did a dance for the birthday boy!
Last night, I had already made plans with Boy Toy after First Taste is over and having our time together. We can’t chill at my place so Oasis is a perfect medium to meet. No laundry, hang out in the pool, and we were upstairs playing for a few hours last night. He knows how my body works and makes me squirt multiple times before I cum. Good thing I didn’t have to my own laundry! Both towels was purely soaked!! The sounds of moaning echoed down the levels and people approached us politely afterwards mentioning how “hot” that was. Well, it could have been hot visually or maybe audibly. I believe there was a few people peeking by the doorway but at that moment, I am in my own world, present with BT. Not concentrating on the list to do, family, whatever, just pleasure. Sex is a stress reliever! Now I can focus!
Totally “Geeking” out with the one and only Reid Mahalko!
WOW! That was a busy day and night! We did run out of lockers at some point in the night and it was busy everywhere despite the well attended workshops by Sex and Consciousness Toronto special guests Reid Mahalko, Lawrence Lanoff, and Monique Darling. They did an amazing job at both workshops! Well I only did go to one workshop but the other was a sold out and I just heard that Monique was able to squirt in front of an audience (which is not easy to do, let alone there are those that never achieve that before).
We also had lomi lomi massage available by the pool every other Wednesday. I’ve also found a new sponsor for Hot Springs for sex toys and lingerie (including plus sizes) called Live it up in Style. My sponsor even brought her friend out that is in the industry and we had an amazing conversation.
Everywhere was busy and even had the delight of having Reid for some one-on-one time. I did appreciate his honesty and negotiating play was rather easy! Have to admit that was the first time ever had a dental dam being used on me. I wanted to see what it was like and surprisingly enough it was pretty hot. Normally, I’m not a big fan of the humming sensation but it was pretty nice. Our experience was more just foreplay but I am sure if we did engage any further we would need a few days. The energy was pretty hot!
Lawrence has a very beautiful presence about him. Our greeting at first was a big, warm welcome hug and full of static!! His pictures doesn’t do him justice and ones aura can’t be captured on camera. We had a big conversation about travel & food, got him hungry so we went to pick up dinner at the ultimate big grocery store near by the club. Hope to meet up someday and connect without all the busyness around!
My night ended with a nice glass of bubbles with a new guy from out of town and ended it off at his hotel room. What a big night! Slept like a baby …. he was very sweet to pick up breakfast for me in the morning before he had to attend a work conference.
Well I am up early today and I can’t sleep the day away! Head is still a little fuzzy but I am still on good girl duties with family. Oh the double life!
Most people know that almost every weekend I do something pretty crazy. This past weekend wasn’t the case. My hands was full, not tied with all my website transfering, learning the tools on the dashboard, filling out my calendar area, preparations of family visiting me and staying at my house, spending time with family, and trying to finish organizing as much details with Oasis before I do travel to meet more relatives.
I managed to get some lovin’ with Boy Toy late night romp on Thursday just before family arrival. As always, we connect pretty well, and he makes sure that I am taken care of multiple times. I don’t get to see him in another few days and I am climbing the walls. Being good, not getting laid, and sharing a bed with my own mother.
Well Hot Springs should be pretty exciting with Reid Mahalko, Monica Darling, and Lance Lanoff at the club. Crossing my fingers for my Se Geek shirt! Finalizing some details on a CFNM party in July and other details on Hot Spring themes in July (more to follow and watch the calendar) at the meeting. Oh yes, there will be a cool vendor with some lingerie (plus size options too) and toys to be sponsoring my event. If you come out, May 15 is a big day including Lomi Lomi massage and I still have more tickets to 4 Members Only Erotic Poetry night next week. Speak in poetry to me…
Sooooooooooo sorry that I didn’t write this sooner. First and foremost, I had my website upgrades and that entailed me going from WordPress.com to .org side. It’s been a bit of a process but managed. Thanks Dan! In between my Mother’s visit, I’ve managed to learn and use the calendar feature, plunking in all the events that is lined up and the media events that I am affiliated as well. Please check the Calender
This past Wednesday wasn’t as nice of a weather as last week but the party always is in the pool. The water is still warm and welcoming. The poor boys that I gave a tour around the club (a company that wants to do a documentary of the club) didn’t last long and meanwhile they should have stayed to talk to people and find out more details. The best people to talk to at that time was in the pool but I am sure they would be more then happy to talk to them if they were naked in the pool. If anyone that is interested in being part of this documentary (no face would be shown), please send me an email firstname.lastname@example.org.
As always I have a great time meeting new people (even the one that was visiting from the US!) He felt bad for staring at my breasts and bought me a drink. Hmmm… how do I cash that if I caught every guy who looks at you?? I wonder… just kidding! The night progressed and it did become a bit of a blur for me. Somehow I ended up making out with this guy on the bean bag what seemed like hours and the night soon ended at Oasis. Just foreplay, that’s all! Afterall, I know I was going to see Boy Toy before I have family visiting me for the rest of the month! MsKitty has to be a good girl at home and then gets to be naughty at the club.
MsKitty is still here!! We are currently going under some technically transfer and upgrades. It will be returning in the next few days, hopefully before May 11 2013 (if everything works according to plan).
PS. Hot Springs is still on every Wednesdays! Here is the new poster!
Friday night I hosted Swinger Fridays at Oasis Aqualounge. I even tried making these swinger necklaces. Apparently, people wear these necklaces with letters of your name, nickname (better than a sticker name tag) at conventions, hotel takeovers, etc. Sure, easier to remember people’s names and instead of saying “hey”, “baby”, “sweetheart”, etc. I did invite a few friends to come out and I even invited VooDoo down as a naughty date. Perhaps it was given since I was talking about VooDoo’s cock the night before with a girlfriend of mine. VooDoo maintained his promise that he would promise me at least two rounds. Last time one round is just not enough and my one friend decided to give me a nickname as the Iron Box.
I did have a good time at the club, even though my friends and VooDoo left before 1AM, I did run into some old friends including Mr and Mrs Finance. The dynamics on the weekends is so different then my Hot Springs, the energy is more relaxed.
Saturday was a super chill day. Tried to sleep in but my current bedroom gets warm in the AM and it’s like a sauna. Get caught up a few errands before I went to Oasis Aqualounge to enjoy the sunshine, get my naked tan on, and meeting Wilma (this lady that I met on Wednesday night & we are two peas in a pod). She even came with another female friend to give her a tour. A lovely late afternoon which followed by an awesome dinner at Cafe Diplomatico!! Love their veal parmigiana and fettuccine alfredo!! Now that I am back in dragon boat season, the night before practice, I can eat whatever I want. I cycle about 20km and paddle for 1.5 hours, it’s a good workout. Wilma and I ended up walking back to my place afterwards, drank some white wine, chilling on my bed, chatting and ended the night by watching a few things on the computer. I was in bed by midnight, like a good girl.
Sunday in the early AM did my cross training of cycling to Sunnyside Beach and paddled with my group. Great weather but Lake Ontario water is COLD! Definitely not Caribbean water!! I love being outside during the warm/hot weather. This past Toronto winter was a little longer then anticipated and now we get to enjoy it! Lady Shayne had a housewarming/birthday party at her house. Shayne wanted pictures of her friends on her wall and even had frames ready to put it up. Since everyone’s pictures is digital, who has paper pics these days?? I dug up my marathon photo from 2005 crossing the line at Honolulu since I bought a package of photos and sent them to my friends and family. (As seen and still up at Elbow Room Cafe in Vancouver.) Boy Toy came by late with wonderful BBQ leftovers from his Greek Easter feast. Hmmm… if I could have had a picture of me eating lamb as he bent me over the kitchen counter. I guess that is MsKitty’s definition of a Greek spit roast in the kitchen!!